I’m the person who asked, “It’s my first date—would a suit be okay, or would something a little more casual be better?” After receiving an offer, I always have trouble deciding what to wear for the first date, so I wanted to ask. I struggle with what to wear not only for the first date but for every date afterward as well. I can’t keep wearing the same outfit, so I’m always worrying about it.
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When choosing an outfit for a date, what kinds of things do you pay attention to?
What do you pay particular attention to when choosing an outfit for the first date?
Those were my questions.
I was in a hurry, so I realize I didn’t phrase my questions very clearly.
I was hoping for advice along the lines of, “If you want your legs to look longer, wear longer denim that reaches down over your shoes,” or “If you want to give off a gentle, approachable vibe, wear a thick sweater in a color like ○○.”
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>What do you pay attention to when choosing an outfit for a date?
I try to stay true to myself while keeping cleanliness and the occasion in mind.
I’ve even worn Uniqlo from head to toe on a first date.
I wouldn’t say I have particularly great fashion sense, but I’ve never been rejected after a first date, so I figure this works for me.
>You shouldn’t wear the same outfit twice.
Since when is that a rule?
Also, questioner, aren’t you answering your own question...?
It’s me.
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I’m not sure whether they still do it, but the club used to have a program where staff would help make an unfashionable papa look more stylish, offering advice on grooming and clothing. It might be worth asking the club about it.
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× A confusingly worded question
○ Misleading wording
If you simply struggled to write clearly, that would be one thing. But I really dislike the attitude of trying to shift the blame onto the reader at this point.
You keep posting over and over. That’s exactly why people treat you like a person to avoid.
As long as your clothes look clean and presentable, they’re fine. I think there are other things you should work on before worrying about your outfit.
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I’m not that particular about clothes.
When I go on a date, I choose something that isn’t quite a suit but would still be perfectly acceptable to wear to work.
The only thing I really think about is coordinating the colors of my top and bottom.
For yesterday’s date, for example, I wore a dress shirt and a navy sweater on top, with beige chinos.
Since my arrangements are only about once a month, I don’t think wearing exactly the same outfit every time is a good idea, but I sometimes wear one or two of the same items as last time.
Am I the only one who feels that if I already knew the kind of advice I wanted, there’d be no need to ask the question in the first place...?
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