I’m the person who recently asked about breaking up with the papa I loved so much.

Flag Maker’s answer gave me an opportunity to think deeply about myself. Thank you so much m(_ _)m 〉Well, maybe you—the person asking this question—were actually looking for the kind of relationship described in this situation. Yet for some reason, you worried, got hurt, and lashed out at him, ultimately bringing about the breakup yourself. In other words, you were the one writing the script, and you were also the heroine. Could there be some truth to that? When you look at it that way, this heartbreak was actually a huge success. You could say that the outcome was exactly what you had envisioned. It means that, deep down, this was the kind of experience you had been seeking. It may have been painful, but it was also a valuable and necessary experience for you. In other words, this experience could become the “setup” for future success. Well, you’re probably fed up with this kind of thing by now. It’s time for you to become someone who can be satisfied with a man who listens to you and loves you more than anyone else. You’re able to feel that way because you went through this experience. Seen that way, it was a meaningful experience. The curtain has come down on this chapter, so it’s time to start writing the script for your next one. I’m probably an adult child. I think the reason I’ve repeatedly made mistakes in my relationships with men is connected to my relationship with my father. Just as Flag Maker said, I think I was writing the script myself. With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I was looking for fatherly affection—measuring how much a man would do for me and whether he wanted me enough to pay to be with me. But I’ve come to realize that I can’t be satisfied with the love offered by men who participate in papa-katsu. I don’t mind if he has a wife. But I don’t want sisters, because I grew up as an only child. I’ve met some truly wonderful men. They solved my problems and spent a lot of money on me… but if they were also seeing other women, I couldn’t be satisfied. I don’t think I can be satisfied knowing that they treat those women just as well as they treat me. I think I’m going to graduate from papa-katsu(^^) Someone spending money on me isn’t love, and I mustn’t mistake it for love(^^) This breakup taught me a great deal about what it really means to love someone. It was a very valuable lesson(^^) Thank you so much to everyone who answered. I want to spend a little more time facing myself and thinking about how I can become happy(^^)