I also find the diverse opinions of experienced members extremely helpful, and they constantly remind me that I still have a long way to go when it comes to personal appeal.
I’ve noticed that each question can receive likes, but questions critical of papa-katsu or complaints about difficult papas seem to get especially many likes.
In general, is papa-katsu itself viewed negatively by society?
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Rather than reflecting society as a whole, I feel that because the Q&A box is linked to Twitter, negative questions that resonate with women who feel that papa-katsu girls have it tough tend to get a lot of likes.
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I don’t think you should worry too much about the likes.
I usually take them to mean something like, “You’re really putting effort into your answers.”
> In general, does society view papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) negatively?
That’s hard to say, but I think it’s similar to asking:
“Does society view horse racing, bicycle racing, and boat racing negatively?”
Some people probably do, while others view them positively.
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Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) may generally be viewed negatively by society, but that probably has nothing to do with the number of likes.
Some people may not be having a good experience with papa-katsu or may be forcing themselves to do it, so perhaps they can relate to posts like this.
Still, I don’t think you need to worry about the number of likes. If you’re enjoying it, that’s what matters—the opinions of others and the number of likes are irrelevant.
I’m of course grateful for the allowance I receive. I’ve also been able to have experiences beyond that, and I’m enjoying it.
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I agree about the likes.
They’re probably being given by women who are active but not having much success. People living ordinary lives probably wouldn’t be looking at a site like this.
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From society’s perspective, I think it’s still viewed pretty negatively.
Everyone involved may be adults, but seeing a young woman being intimate with an old man in exchange for money does look unnatural, no matter how you look at it（笑）
That said, it’s also true that some young women doing papa-katsu say it isn’t so bad—that they can learn useful things beyond intimacy.
As Kazu-san said, I think the people clicking “Like” are those whose relationships aren’t fulfilling, regardless of gender.
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I think the people liking the post are either the poster themselves or others who relate to their dissatisfaction.
People who view papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) negatively probably wouldn’t go out of their way to open the question box and like it.
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