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Once you set your profile visibility to “Public,” your club name will be displayed.
If you told a woman that you had withdrawn from the club, she’ll find out that you haven’t. Likewise, if you told her you weren’t active, updating your profile will expose the lie.
In a recent case, for example, your impression of a woman you’ve already met—or have a date arranged with—might change when she messages you.
(Messages will still come through even if your profile is set to “Private,” but if your club name is visible, it will become apparent that she’s the kind of woman who would message you despite seeing that.)
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I like experimenting, so I’ve written “You’re wonderful” to everyone a few times…
Then I accidentally wrote it to one of the respondents too, and at the time I thought, “Oops… (￣▽￣;)”
You get “You’re wonderful” messages from all kinds of people, but I think all it really does is make you feel like, “I’m so popular~ (σ´³`)σ Whoo~♪”
You should try it once as an experiment. Life’s short, after all.
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I’m with Early on this.
I keep my profile public mainly because I don’t really see any downside to it.
When a woman I’ve added to my favorites sends me a message saying, “You seem wonderful,” I often end up ignoring it because I’m not actually thinking about making her an offer right now. I do feel bad about that, though…
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I keep mine public.
I haven’t noticed any major downsides so far, but as Kazu mentioned, most of the messages come from women who aren’t really my type. I wouldn’t say it’s annoying, though（笑）
I have fairly specific tastes, so more than 99% of the time I simply receive the “You’re lovely” message and leave it at that. However, I did make an offer to one person, and we’re still seeing each other.
Since I have particular preferences, don’t check new registrations every day, and can’t find everyone through searches alone, I think I’m fine with keeping my profile public.
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Writing utterly ridiculous messages
I’m Potassium, a female member.
Let me tell you about the downside.
Sometimes female members like me send “You seem lovely” messages—perfectly 200 characters long, written as though we’d latched onto the questioner’s profile, and rambling about some incredibly niche topic.
I don’t send them anymore, but back in my prime, when I kept sending those messages…
The content was practically a personal dark history. I’d burst out laughing by myself after sending one, then get hit with terrible guilt about an hour later. I did that every day.
To the men I sent those messages to back then, I’m sorry.
Well, as Kazu says, the downside is probably that it’s annoying to receive “You seem lovely” messages from women you’re not interested in.
By the way, my papa looked into the relationship between the number of messages received and various factors, and it was really interesting.
This is just my personal theory, but don’t forget that women like this exist too, lol.
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