How difficult is it to find a monthly-arrangement papa offering 200,000 yen?
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For someone who has been a Gold member for a few months and stands out, or for a Platinum member, how difficult would it be to newly find a monthly-arrangement papa offering 200,000 yen? She’s a Type B.
The reason I’m asking is that I currently have a woman on a monthly arrangement for 200,000 yen.
This was based on her request, since she needs 200,000 yen a month. Because I don’t have much stamina and also have work and family commitments, we only meet once a month, which is a frequency I’m satisfied with as well.
So in practice, it’s pay-per-meeting at 200,000 yen.
Meeting only once a month is due to my circumstances, so if you tell me, “Then just leave things as they are,” you’re absolutely right.
However, I do feel that 200,000 yen per meeting is expensive.
I feel that negotiating a lower amount would somehow be wrong, and I’m also considering ending things. But I’ve heard that she’s struggling financially, and if that’s true, I can’t help feeling bad about it.
Ideally, I’d like her to find someone new, which is admittedly a very selfish wish.
Given the current market, if it’s easy to find a papa (a male supporter) willing to pay around 200,000 yen, I’m thinking of saying, “Please look for someone else”—which feels pretty lame.
But if it isn’t that easy, I’d feel like I’d said something cruel, so I’ll phrase it differently.
Apparently, she received just under ten offers when she first joined, but I don’t know how many people have continued seeing her since then.
I also don’t know whether she’s still receiving new offers.
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An allowance of 200,000 yen for one meeting a month seems quite generous.
That said, there are probably plenty of people whose total monthly allowance comes to 200,000 yen.
It’s important to consider your partner’s situation, but you might also want to communicate what you’re looking for and then decide together. They may say they’d still like to meet for 100,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis—or they may look elsewhere to make up the difference.
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I’m female member Potassium.
Unless she’s actually telling you she wants to see you, she probably just sees you as a good papa who gives her ¥200,000 for a single meeting each month.
If that’s the case, she could easily find another man and still make ¥200,000 a month, even if it isn’t you.
If she wants to continue seeing you because she genuinely likes you as a person, then I think it would be wonderful and kind of you to take those feelings into consideration. But if all she wants is the ¥200,000, I don’t think you need to worry about it.
I feel like you may be trusting her a little too much. If she really likes you as her papa, she’ll want to see you. It’s understandable if she turns you down because she’s busy, but if she doesn’t show any sign that she wants to meet, then that tells you everything.
That said, I think it’s really wonderful that you’re thinking ahead for her. You sound like a great papa.
Just my personal opinion.
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> How difficult is it to find a new monthly supporter who pays ¥200,000? I’m Type B.
Since that happened to you, there may already be three or four others among the offers who are like that.
I think ¥200,000–¥300,000 a month is relatively easy to achieve. If you’re Type B, it may be even more attainable in some cases. I don’t think ¥200,000 a month is anything particularly special.
Also, don’t take everything women say at face value. Even if you switch back to pay-per-meeting—or decide to part ways—you probably don’t need to worry about being left in a difficult position.
Tell him you’d like to switch back to pay-per-meeting. If you want to see him, meet occasionally; otherwise, you can simply stop replying to his messages.
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A pay-per-meeting allowance of ¥200,000 would only make sense if she were top-tier and had a premium of at least ¥50,000 on top of that.
You’re talking about a ¥150,000 setting fee, right? I’ve seen it go as high as ¥180,000.
If you really have her best interests at heart, why not say something like:
“I’m truly sorry that I’m not financially capable. Embarrassingly, all I can give you right now is ¥100,000 a month. I’m not asking to see you twice a month, so if you’re okay with that, I’d like to continue. If not, perhaps we should part ways.”
Please set aside your pointless male pride and help her.
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You’re worrying about something pretty strange. You’ve already decided to cut things off, right? There’s no point agonizing over what to say when you do it.
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It varies from person to person and depends on luck.
I’m sure there are plenty of women in allowance-based relationships who receive 200,000 yen a month. For example, it’s entirely possible to earn 200,000 yen per month by seeing one to four papas at 50,000 yen per meeting, or one to two papas at 100,000 yen per meeting.
Finding a regular papa who pays 200,000 yen per meeting, however, would be quite difficult.
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