Someone took the condom off partway through.

The problem is getting involved with someone who needs to be explicitly reminded beforehand. You had at least some feeling that something was off before becoming intimate too, didn’t you? I would never do it without protection, and I’ve never once had a woman remind me of that beforehand. Learn to judge men properly.

That’s because changing positions is what makes it difficult. Just say, “This position works better for me,” and don’t change positions. Once he pulls out, call it a night. Keep telling him, “It hurts, so I can’t do that.” “What? Is that what Date-san does?” That’s right（笑） P.S. I have one more good idea. Keep your hips pressed tightly against him so he can’t pull out. Whenever he tries to pull back, move your hips in closer to him. He tries to get away, and the woman chases after him. You can just picture the scene on the bed（笑） Actually, that sounds like fun too（笑） It fits perfectly with Date-style dating, based on the principle that both people should enjoy themselves and benefit from the relationship（笑） Highly recommended!

I could tell from the sound that it had come off… The person I thought I was really close with did it twice!! So I smiled and said, “I’m mad! I’m really mad!” then took a bath and got dressed right away. - The sound - When changing positions - Be careful because after inserting with a condom once, it can slip off if he gets smaller and tries again - The sensation when it’s inserted - And if he says even once, “I want to do it without a condom,” stay fully alert I told him, “I’m mad! I’m sad. I’m shocked! I’m really, really mad!!!!” I’m looking forward to the apology sweets next week…

Usually, they’ll remove it when switching to the rear position, so when changing positions—and during the time between switching and reinsertion—it’s best to keep watching the man’s movements the entire time. Someone who removes it midway will usually do something suspicious at that point. Also, if he feels that you’re watching closely and there’s no opportunity to remove it, he probably won’t. The same applies when changing positions other than the rear position: he may remove it while pulling out and then make his move when reinserting, so it’s important to keep a close eye on him. If you’re not certain but feel that something seemed off, you could say, “I feel like the condom may have come off just now,” and check. If it’s still on, you can simply say, “Sorry, I must have been mistaken.” If you don’t want to check directly, placing your hand around his penis while it’s inside you can help you tell whether the condom is still on. He may wonder what you’re doing, but if he asks, you can say, “I thought it might feel better, so I wanted to try it.” Also, don’t forget to report it to the club. If they receive enough reports, they may add a message such as: “We have received reports of people removing the condom midway and ejaculating inside. You can also choose not to accept their offers. What would you like to do?” That way, women can decline offers and be more careful during intimate encounters.

I’m Ryo, one of the female respondents. That must have been really painful... I’ve also had a partner remove protection midway and continue without it... I do think it would be perfectly fine to end things, but this is only based on my experience, so I’m sorry if it isn’t helpful. In my case, I clearly told him how hurt I was. I told him that he had broken his promise and hurt me deeply, and that what shocked me most was feeling that he didn’t truly care about me. He apologized and said he regretted what he had done. He clearly told me he would never do it again and that he didn’t want to lose the chance to see me, so he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me again. We’re still seeing each other now, and since then, he’s treated me with kindness and care, just as he promised. But in my case, we decided to continue rather than break up. It really depends on the other person. Normally, I think most people would feel, “I can’t keep seeing someone like this!” So I think it’s completely fine to end things. Sorry if this wasn’t helpful. I just wanted to share that situations like this can happen.

That’s awful… If it were me, I’d probably consider ending things. When you say you want to take precautions, does that mean you’d still like to continue seeing him? If so, next time, make sure you have proof that you clearly warned him—maybe a recording or LINE messages. If he takes it off again, tell him firmly that it’s not okay and end the meeting. Then, after some time has passed, you could give him a bit of a scare by saying something like, “My period hasn’t come…” or “I think I may have gotten sick…” The important thing isn’t to extort money from him, but to make sure he never does it again—or can’t do it again. For your sake, and for the sake of other women too.