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Sep 14, 2022 18:47
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Will they stop coming altogether from now on?
Can men see the date I registered?
I haven't been updating my profile because commenting to push it to the top makes me feel like I'm trying too hard and looks embarrassing.
My selfie photos and papa-katsu-related sections are blank too.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If you received offers every day for a week, the staff may have temporarily paused your profile from receiving further offers.
Normally, they would let the woman know, but it’s also possible they paused it without telling you.
Once you’ve finished going on dates with everyone who has already made an offer, your profile will be shown again. At that point, though, your ranking may have dropped, and the men who wanted to make an offer may have already done so, so you’ll probably only receive occasional offers after your profile is visible again.
In general, it’s common to receive a lot of offers at first and then see them gradually decrease.
So think carefully about whether there was anyone among the men who have contacted you that you liked. If there was, it may be best to consider continuing the relationship with him if possible.
You can wait until a month has passed before updating various things.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Men can see your registration date.
As long as you don’t get a bad reputation from your dates, the initial rush may die down, but I feel like offers will still trickle in from time to time.
That said, if you want more offers, I’d recommend setting aside any silly pride and updating various things on your profile.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since new women join one after another, there are so many that men only need to browse for about a week after joining. That’s why it’s best to value the men who took a liking to you and made an offer right away within your first three days or week.
In your case, I think offers will gradually dwindle to just one here and there from now on.
I hope there’s a good one among the first three men who made you an offer.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
A Gold man can add Platinum women to his favorites, so it’s possible that you’re a Black woman.
Other
Congratulations on joining!
Most likely, for a while after joining, staff recommend you to men or your profile gets featured near the top, making you more visible and bringing in offers. Once things settle down, the frequency of offers tends to drop—I think that’s something everyone goes through.
If you want to keep receiving offers, don’t worry too much about seeming desperate or undignified. Just keep improving what you can, such as adding private photos or updating your profile comments.
If you truly can’t get past that feeling, then your only option is to wait and leave it to chance while dealing with the anxiety.
Since you’ve received offers over the past week, you’ll probably meet at least seven men, so personally, I don’t think it would hurt to meet them first and see how things go.
I believe men can see the date you registered—at least, I think they can.