Are women really that put off by men who take a long time to finish?
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The other day, a woman I’ve met a few times told me she felt sore and irritated. Do you think she was saying that because she wanted to cut things short and take it easy?
Usually, penetration lasts about 30 minutes, but the other day it lasted an hour. Even so, it was only an hour. Is she just being lazy or letting her guard down?
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I’m Ryo, a female respondent.
Even 30 minutes is more than enough.
10–15 minutes is ideal.
If you can’t climax, just stop.
You could always masturbate instead.
The mucous membranes are genuinely very delicate, so they start hurting quickly unless you’re gentle.
Long foreplay can hurt just as much. Even more so if it isn’t pleasurable. Please keep it to 20–30 minutes at most. Give her 20 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of penetration, then stop after 30 minutes total.
You should try rubbing your own genitals against a grater. That way, you’ll understand the pain and suffering your partner is experiencing. I highly recommend it.
Give it a try sometime.
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In my case, it’s like cup ramen—I’m an “instant grandpa,” as the women call me, and they’re always very happy.
I don’t think your partner is simply taking shortcuts. It seems like an automated pleasure device might be the right solution for you.
Before she cuts you off, you might want to have her help you use the device right up until the last moment. That could make for a more harmonious relationship.
Next time, bring the device along on your date and say, “Okay, I’ll set it up now…”
I can already imagine the delighted look on her face and the fun scene that follows（笑).
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That’s insanely long. I think the woman who’s sticking with you deserves a lot of credit.
According to research by TENGA, women ideally want penetration to last 10–14 minutes, while around 15 minutes is considered normal for men. Anything longer is apparently regarded as delayed ejaculation.
Rather than looking at this only from your own perspective, please check with Professor Google.
I think you should be grateful for her patience.
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You’d be appreciated for finishing in one minute, not one hour… (unless she’s into long sessions, of course).
Honestly, I assumed women could climax in about three minutes too, but apparently, when they masturbate, they can do it in under a minute…
Questioner, try training yourself: keep pleasuring her without penetration until she says she wants you to put it in. Then, once she asks for it, penetrate and finish within a minute.
Huh? Wait… with you, wouldn’t she just keep saying, “Put it in,” over and over without ever meaning it? In that case, don’t penetrate for 30 minutes—or even an hour—just keep pleasuring her endlesslyーーーーーーーー. Apparently, even being pleasured by you is painful for her…
Besides, you could say sex exists for women’s sake in the first place, so you should be thinking about her pleasure. Enough already—your whole way of thinking is messed up. I can practically hear women screaming.
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> Are women really that put off by delayed ejaculation?
Just the other day, I shared this article about a female Kyoto University student who made 10 million yen from a dating advice blog, saying that the ideal was:
15 minutes of foreplay
5 minutes of teasing
15 minutes of penetration
https://news.line.me/detail/oa-yomutxcom/f0bty2fhvh4q
That said, I think most women dislike delayed ejaculation.
> It lasted an hour the other day, but that’s still only an hour.
“Only” is based on the questioner’s personal perception. Generally speaking, an hour is not a short amount of time.
You can understand this better by looking at it the other way around.
Suppose you were with a muscular man who could stimulate your private parts with his hand for three hours—and even if you ejaculated during it, he wouldn’t stop.
Afterward, if he said, “It was only three hours. Are you being lazy or letting your guard down?” how would you feel?
Don’t you think your three hours and the other person’s three hours might feel very different?
Wouldn’t your private parts start to feel sore or irritated?
You seem convinced that your own sense of things is correct, and your attitude is arrogant. There’s absolutely no consideration for the woman.
If you don’t want both of you to enjoy yourselves and only want to enjoy yourself, then you should go to a sex service instead.
Why are you trying to make the woman suffer?
When she says it’s becoming sore, please realize that she’s trying to explain the situation to you as gently as possible.
Normally, women will put up with a certain amount of discomfort without saying anything. If she’s telling you, it means she’s already reached her limit.
If all you want is a hole, there are plenty of other options.
You’re not suited to a dating club, so please go somewhere else.
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I love guys who take a long time to finish.
But they do eventually, right?
With someone who doesn’t, I wouldn’t know when it’s okay to stop, so that’s a little difficult.
And he’d have to be well-endowed, too.
I’d love to say, “If that sounds like you, send me an offer,” but it looks like you’ve already deleted your account. What a shame.
Marika
An hour is short.
Sometimes it goes on for several hours.
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Is delayed ejaculation really that off-putting to women?
☆It’s honestly such a nuisance, and I hate it. What else is there to say?
You really must never have been in a relationship with a woman before.
That burning sensation is completely normal. I’m sure the way you masturbate isn’t helping either.
If you’re going to have sex that’s all about your own needs, go to an adult entertainment establishment.
You should finish within about 15 minutes at most after penetration begins.
It sounds like you’re coming to the dating club just to have sex.
It practically sounds like you’re saying, “I’ll pay, so let me have you.”
When people do it five times a day, it’s only possible because they have some time between sessions.
Poor woman… Her skin has probably peeled, and it likely stings when she urinates.
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A woman’s vagina won’t feel sore if you increase her allowance. I’m serious.
¥50,000 per meeting → small dick, premature ejaculation, one round only
¥100,000 per meeting → average-sized dick, slightly delayed ejaculation, one round only
¥150,000 or more per meeting → big dick, delayed ejaculation
That’s roughly what you can expect. So, questioner, try offering ¥150,000 per meeting.
Women will tell you:
“I can’t feel satisfied with guys my age because they finish so quickly. But you do it with me so many times, and I’m completely satisfied♡”
Remember this: “A generous allowance is lotion for the vagina.”
What do the female fans of this Q&A site think? Don’t you agree? If it’s ¥150,000 per meeting, the vagina won’t feel sore, right? LOL
Also, training yourself to control when you ejaculate and finishing when it suits the woman is the absolute basics of papa-katsu.
I can finish in as little as one minute, or I can go without finishing for an hour. If a woman won’t be satisfied unless it lasts a long time, it’s better to keep moving your hips for one or even two hours. But if she has a sensitive vagina, finish within ten minutes.
Bringing your own lotion is also basic papa-katsu etiquette. If you forget the lotion, wrap at least five ¥10,000 bills around your dick before inserting it.
Anyway, that’s the honest truth.
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I always end up answering questions like this.
I’m Potassium, a female member.
To be perfectly honest, sex that goes on too long is torture.
(Though it might be acceptable if you’re an extreme masochist.)
This isn’t about taking shortcuts—it’s genuinely painful.
It hurts a lot.
It feels like getting covered in tons of tiny scrapes.
Hmm…
If you want to experience something similar to what the person asking the question might feel, try sticking your finger in your nostril and moving it back and forth for at least 30 minutes.
Unless your nasal mucous membrane is exceptionally tough, you’ll probably get a nosebleed.
I’m only trying to say that mucous membranes are delicate. I’m absolutely not saying you should think of women as nostrils, so seriously, don’t get the wrong idea.
By the way, if I’m penetrated for 30 minutes and subjected to vigorous thrusting, I’ll normally still have some bleeding the next day.
Please take care of both women’s bodies and their feelings.
Anyway, that’s my honest take.
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The problem isn’t whether you’re slow to finish or not—the real issue is that you don’t seem to care about the woman’s comfort.
If your first thought when she says it hurts or feels irritated is, “Is this guy trying to cut things short?” then I doubt women would like you even if you went to a sex venue.
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It’s quite long. And I hope you won’t take this the wrong way, but your question comes across as rather self-centered. Your partner may be seeing you only because of their financial circumstances, so I hope they don’t find someone better and cut ties with you.
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Generally speaking, I think delayed ejaculation is something most people dislike. If you keep going until it becomes sore, they’ll definitely be put off. Isn’t the fact that this is their only complaint actually a fairly tactful way of putting it?
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I think around 10 minutes is ideal for penetration. Thirty minutes seems quite long.
Unless the allowance and the questioner’s overall profile are especially appealing, anything over 30 minutes could be a reason for someone to pass.
Try searching for “average penetration time.”
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