I’ve just joined and set aside ¥10 million as my total dating budget, all-inclusive.
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I’m planning to stop once the budget runs out.
This is my first experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
What would be the best way to enjoy it efficiently within my budget?
I’d appreciate any advice from those with experience.
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I suddenly remembered a question from years ago:
“After 30 years as a salaryman, I joined a dating club after cashing out a ¥10 million time deposit I’d kept hidden from my wife. Unfortunately, the money was completely gone by the 29th month.
This was an activity to ensure I had no regrets in life, so I have no complaints. It has been a life worth living. I’d also like to hear a few words from the representative. Would that be possible?”
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/263
In response, President Kida, the club’s representative, gave a very interesting answer.
Why not read it and give it some thought?
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To avoid wasting 10 million yen, you’ll need to build a lasting relationship with the woman you’ve fallen for. Otherwise, you may find yourself being rejected or betrayed time and again, despite making offers, and end up thinking, “I spent all that money and was treated terribly.”
So, if you want to create wonderful memories with the woman you’re interested in, I think you first need to work on yourself and develop qualities that make women like you more than other papas.
Aim to become an attractive, refined older man who pays attention to even the smallest details—your appearance, including your build and body odor; your personality; your allowance; and whether an offhand comment might make a woman uncomfortable. If you can do that, you’ll be able to make sparkling memories with your 10 million yen.
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Yokoyama from the staff here as well!
Meeting and being matched with various people can be a good option, but if it were me, I’d find a woman I’m compatible with and focus on supporting her.
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I think the goal of a dating club should be to build relationships where the other person will always feel glad they met you.
So start by making 30–50 offers over the course of a month or two, and see if you can find one or two people who are a good match.
To do that, you need to sharpen your eye for who you like—including outside the club. Even better if you can develop the judgment to choose people who will like you in return.
You won’t enjoy it unless you’re being chosen, too.
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I think it’s best to look for just one or two women who are your type.
With that budget, I’d focus more on personality than looks and choose someone who probably has less competition.
The goal of a dating club is to build a relationship they’ll be grateful for meeting you for the rest of their life.
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I think the key is to go about it without thinking about the fact that your budget is ¥10 million.
Free yourself from being bound by money.
Whether it runs out in three months or lasts three years—that really doesn’t matter.
I mean, that part doesn’t matter to you anyway, right?
The best way to get the most enjoyment out of ¥10 million is to let go of the idea of “enjoying it efficiently within the budget.”
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What is this?
“I’ve set aside 10 million yen to spend at hostess clubs. I plan to stop once I’ve used up the budget. This will be my first time at a hostess club. How can I make the most of it within my budget? I’d appreciate advice from anyone with experience.”
I’ve never heard anyone talk like that.
I think you should just do whatever you want.
What kind of woman you like, what you’re looking for—those things vary from person to person.
Start by making an offer and going on a date. Whether it works out or not, that’s where you begin.
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Everyone has different hobbies and different ways of having fun, so I don’t think there’s one definitive approach.
Early on, it’s probably most efficient to try different things, experiment, and find your own way to enjoy yourself and navigate the dating club scene.
Also, I think dating clubs suit some people better than others. If you’re not having much fun, it may be worth considering stepping away before you spend the entire 10 million yen.
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① If both the first and second dates are dinner only (no intimacy), give her 1 for two hours each time.
② Look for a woman who’ll continue seeing you for 5 pay-per-meeting. The goal is what’s commonly called “lucky gold.”
③ Aim to become a second papa or a third papa. Never become a woman’s primary papa.
④ Find one woman to meet once a month for 5 pay-per-meeting, and another to meet twice a month.
With the above approach, I think you can enjoy papa-katsu for three years. While doing so, work yourself to the bone and save another ¥10 million. Then you can keep doing papa-katsu endlessly.
That’s the math.
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