Tips Aug 21, 2022 15:21

I’m a female member who only registered recently.

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I’ve just finished adding my comments, calendar, and questionnaire results. The photos taken by the staff member in charge turned out well, and I’m satisfied with them. So far, around 40 men have added me to their favorites, but I still haven’t received any offers. Is it really important to upload candid, everyday photos taken by someone else—photos that show a bit of my natural self—in order for men to decide whether to make an offer?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, private photos would definitely be one factor in making a decision. As is the case with me, more cautious men tend to consider an offer based on the overall picture. Photos without filters or heavy editing are preferable. I understand wanting to show your personality, but I once saw a woman upload a silly, funny-face photo and wondered, “Does she really think this will lead to an offer?” Personally, I’d advise against posting anything just for laughs or attention. In any case, unless you’re already extremely popular, if you’re looking for offers, I think it’s important to try everything you can.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
This is an important point. Some people choose to do it, while others don’t. If you haven’t received any offers yet, try uploading some photos to give your profile a boost, then send a “You look lovely” message. That should help bring in some offers. As for photos, use unedited ones above all. Upload a reasonably large variety, including selfies and full-body shots, making sure they’re all different. It’s also a good idea to include some with a smile or other expressive facial expressions.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t think there are very many. If you want to stand out, I agree that photos showing your personality are best. When I see heavily edited photos, I get the impression that she’s someone who’s really active on dating apps, and it’s a bit of a turnoff.
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It’s great that you were able to get some lovely photos taken! Sorry to answer as a woman, but I don’t think selfies have much to do with receiving offers. None of the men who contacted me mentioned my selfies when I asked what prompted them to reach out. They mentioned my appearance in the photos and videos, the way I spoke, my bust size, my profile, and the staff’s comments. It seems that the photos you like best aren’t necessarily the ones men respond to most.
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