Nice to meet you, and I apologize for the sudden question.
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Last year, I became a single mother after my husband cheated on me and was mildly violent toward me.
After getting divorced in my early 30s, I’ve been feeling lonely both emotionally and physically. I’m looking for comfort and support, and I’m considering signing up, but I’m still unsure.
When I got divorced, I moved and changed jobs, and I currently live in Tochigi Prefecture.
Would it still be possible to meet someone or receive introductions in Tochigi?
I imagine many of you are busy, but I would be grateful for any advice.
Thank you in advance.
Our staff team would also be happy to answer your questions.
If you’re seriously considering signing up, we can arrange an online interview, so would you be willing to hear us out first?
You may have some concerns, so please feel free to discuss them with our staff.
We also offer “letter dates,” where you can get a feel for each other before meeting in person, so we should be able to introduce you to supporters even if you live far away.
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If you can come to Tokyo for dates, I think you’ll receive offers.
Here, there’s no matchmaking process—men view profiles and make offers themselves.
I’m not going to tell you only what you want to hear, but if you have enough looks or appeal to overcome the disadvantage of being divorced, I think you’ll receive offers.
Rather than worrying too much about whether you’ll get an offer, why not start by registering?
If it doesn’t work out here, there are also apps. First, take a good look at yourself and then take that first step.
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If you’re an attractive woman, you should have no trouble getting offers even in Tochigi.
I sometimes make offers to attractive women in Shizuoka and Yamanashi, and I fairly often come across women who have received around ten offers.
That said, being a single mother can be a drawback, so you may not get a large number of offers. Still, I hope you’ll cherish each opportunity to meet someone.
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That sounds like you’ve been through a lot…
When I went in for my interview, I asked the staff about this. They told me that even among registered women in their 50s, there are some who receive plenty of offers.
As for where you can meet, I wouldn’t say it’s the most convenient location. However, the person I’m seeing and I live far apart, yet they come to see me, and I go to see them too. On top of covering my travel expenses, they also give me an allowance. There are people like that as well, so if you can expand the area where you’re willing to meet someone, I recommend doing so.
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Considering all the terms, it may be more on the unfavorable side, but I think there’s still a chance you could receive offers.
It will depend on your appearance and the comments the staff write after your interview, so for now, I’d recommend going to the interview.
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You can still receive offers even if you live in Tochigi.
However, since there tend to be more male members in areas with branch offices, dates will most likely be in places like Omiya or Tokyo.
That said, although they were less common, I believe there used to be some arrangements involving meeting in Utsunomiya as well.
Since there isn’t a branch office in Tochigi, your interview would probably be in Omiya. It might be a good idea to ask about everything when you go.
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That sounds really tough.
The location may put you at a slight disadvantage, but some people don’t mind traveling, and there are also people who genuinely want to meet you even within tight time constraints.
I may have mentioned this a few times before, but the people I prioritize when clearing my schedule are those who fly in from far away to see me. If someone comes to see me on my birthday—even if they can only stay for an hour or just have dinner—I give them my full attention.
I hope you meet someone like that.
Akari
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I think women in their early 30s are actually more popular.
Why did you move to such a rural area…?
I’m planning to move into Osaka City myself. It’s convenient for pretty much everything, after all—and there are more jobs, with relatively higher pay.
For now, try going to the interview once. Only a very small number of people don’t get accepted, and it’s not too late to worry about it after that.
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I do sometimes see people from Northern Kanto. Some say they need to leave by XX:00 because the last train is early, while others ask you to add ¥X,000 for round-trip transportation to Tokyo.
I do think there’s somewhat of a disadvantage, but it doesn’t seem like a particularly major one. There seem to be quite a few men whose preferred age range is the early 30s. Even those who exclusively prefer women in their 20s or those 40 and older seem to take that age range into consideration to some extent.
Even among women living in central Tokyo, some are married or single mothers and have various restrictions, so I suppose it ultimately comes down to the individual.
There may even be cases where I’m the one saying, “I’ll come to you.”
I’ve been dying to visit Nasu Animal Kingdom, for one.
Taro
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