Thank you, as always, to everyone who answers—I really enjoy reading your posts.
I’ve long thought that if female members could leave comments through the “That’s nice!” feature, it might lead to more connections.
Recently, a few women I had favorited replied to my “That’s nice!” with comments, and I made offers to several of them.
I really like this tempting little feature.
If a woman you like sends you an invitation, do you usually make her an offer?
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If it came from a woman I really like, I might consider it.
But as Ari said, timing matters too.
At least for now, I’m focusing on the women I already have ongoing arrangements with, so I won’t make an offer to someone new unless she’s truly exceptional. (I’ve only made one offer to a new woman this year…)
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I was having a hard time finding my next monthly arrangement, and after getting turned down over and over whenever I made an offer, I decided to make my profile public for a limited time. That’s when I received my first “You seem lovely!” comment.
Like the person asking the question, I think this system is a good one.
The women I add to my favorites are especially my type, so when one of them takes the time to read my profile carefully and leaves a heartfelt comment, it makes me want to make an offer.
Once I find a woman for a monthly arrangement, I’ll hide my profile again.
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I’m a lost 60-something.
I stopped making my profile public after this feature was added.
Before that, I kept it public because I thought it would be useful when considering new offers after ending things with someone I was seeing.
But once I started receiving messages, I realized I couldn’t increase the number of people I’m seeing any further. I felt bad receiving such heartfelt messages, so I made my profile private.
I actually felt more at ease before I started getting messages.
I’m probably in the minority, though. (汗)
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It may depend on the timing, but if a woman I’ve added to my favorites sends me a message saying, “You seem wonderful,” I’d probably make her an offer.
I imagine the club introduced this feature to increase the number of offers, so if offers are actually increasing and there aren’t any negative factors, I expect they’ll keep the feature or improve it.
I suppose it comes down to what each person values most. In my case, an adult relationship (intimate) isn’t the end goal or the starting point. I simply hope to build the best possible relationship for both of us with a woman I genuinely like.
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I don’t make offers.
Because it would make getting her to agree to an arrangement almost effortless. That’s way too boring.
I hunt for women at Universe’s Type A events, men’s esthetic salons, lounges, hair salons, and massage parlors because it’s challenging.
Outside of dating clubs, I pursue them without offering an allowance, have an adult relationship (intimate), and then give them money as a thank-you when we leave the room.
Doing it for free feels gross and only lowers my satisfaction, so I give them money, enjoy myself, and make the woman even happier too.
There may be some back-and-forth, but in the end, there hasn’t been a single woman who refused to accept the money. If you offer it politely, they’ll take it.
I’m simply giving back the money I’ve earned, like a money-grubber, to the women who are kind enough to spend time with me. That’s SDGs.
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