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Jul 9, 2022 11:39
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In my experience, a papa (a male supporter) who isn’t interested in a monthly arrangement won’t agree to it no matter what, while someone who is willing will usually do it right away.
So I wouldn’t recommend asking directly, since he may think, “I don’t really like this girl—our expectations don’t match.”
But if you’re willing to take a chance, the quickest way might be to become very close with him first and meet frequently—once or twice a week—until he starts thinking, “It’s a hassle to give her money every time we meet. I’d rather just pay her all at once.”
Good luck!
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More than that, I’d be happier if she said, “I feel lonely when we go more than two days without seeing each other.”
If we started meeting more often, it’d basically be a monthly arrangement anyway.
Here are a few excerpts from messages I’ve actually received:
“I’d love to see you. You’re the only one I’m seeing, so it’s been a long time since I’ve done that, and I’m reaching my limit.”
“When we only go on dinner dates, I start wanting to see you even sooner. The feeling of being made to wait is intense.”
“It had been a while since I’d had a relaxed dinner-only date, so it was fun and a little different from usual. This is just between us, but seeing you made me want to do it. I’d be happy if we could meet again soon!”
When a woman makes it seem like she wants to see you—and wants to do that—men start getting carried away… I’m just a foolish pervert, after all.
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Thank you for all your hard work.
Do you mean a monthly arrangement rather than a monthly salary? Either term is fine since they mean essentially the same thing, but maybe it’s because I’m a little mean—I couldn’t help wondering if you were deliberately making it sound like a job（笑）
It depends on the papa’s way of thinking, but for now, regardless of the relationship or how I’m asked, I don’t think I’d agree to a monthly arrangement unless it was something I personally wanted.
If the papa is the type of person I am, the relationship might become awkward. However, if the girl I’m closest to told me she wanted to see me more, I’d increase the number of meetings as much as I reasonably could. And if I found out she was having some kind of trouble, I might give her a somewhat larger amount all at once.
For example, if the current pay-per-meeting allowance is 50,000 yen, there might be a chance if you offered 150,000 yen for around three meetings a month—or even four, since you’d like to see her often.
That said, I still wouldn’t make it a monthly arrangement.
Other
“Rin, make it a monthly salary, lol.
I’m the type who’d rather work full-time than do part-time jobs ♥
Just hearing ‘monthly salary’ makes me try 30% harder ♥
Am I a permanent employee to you? ♥
Try saying that, then put on red lingerie and move three times as much—how about it? lol”
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Osaka, thank you!
When you say a monthly payment, you mean you’d like to receive a fixed monthly allowance, like the person who asked the previous question, right?
I think you should give it some serious thought. As we sometimes see in questions here, with a monthly arrangement, one side often ends up feeling dissatisfied. I’m attracted to the idea too, but I honestly don’t think I have enough to offer—or enough in return—to make it worthwhile.
I think it would be best to carefully consider why you want a monthly arrangement and explain that to your papa.
Like Early said, it feels very much like a job. This is a relationship, not employment.