I have a second date planned for tomorrow, but I got my period today.
Last week, he asked, “Can we relax in a room after dinner?” and I replied, “Sure,” so I assume he's expecting an adult relationship (intimate) too. Should I tell him over LINE that I've gotten my period?
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If you’re a Type B, you don’t have to mention it. Even if you’re a Type C, it’s fine to wait until you’ve met.
After all, this is a dating club.
If you’re only interested in intimacy or the allowance, then maybe both sides should be upfront about it—but that sounds so boring…
And if you bring it up on the second date and then decide not to meet, arranging another date afterward would be such a hassle…
Women may want to meet even without an allowance, just for dinner.
Men may want to give an allowance even if they only get to see her face for five minutes.
Wishing you lots of wonderful encounters.
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I think it’s best to let him know via LINE.
In my case, I cancel the hotel reservation but still go out for dinner together. I also give her the allowance.
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Yokoyama from the staff here as well.
As everyone has mentioned, it’s probably best to let him know before you meet so the gentleman won’t feel uncomfortable either!
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Let him know as soon as possible. You can say that you’d still like to meet even if it’s just for dinner, but that you understand how he feels and are fine with either rescheduling or leaving it as is. That should help him feel more at ease.
Depending on how you phrase it, he might think you’re turning him down because you don’t want to meet, so choose your words carefully and be tactful.
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Since room reservations may be involved, I think it’s best to let him know as soon as possible.
I agree with Rin—it’s the man’s decision, so I think you should explain your circumstances honestly.
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I think you should tell him.
Maybe say, “I’d still like to meet, even if it’s just for dinner.”
Whether dinner only is acceptable—or whether to meet at all—isn’t that for the man to decide?
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“I got my period today... But I’d still really like to see you, so how about just dinner tomorrow? You don’t need to give me an allowance.”
That would make most papas’ hearts melt. A typical papa would probably still give you one or two万円, and if he didn’t even give you one, it could be a good test of what to expect from him going forward.
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