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Jun 6, 2022 04:05
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Teramoto from the Customer Success Department at Universe Club here.
PayPay transfers have become pretty common these days, too.
However, for first dates arranged through the club, please make sure to hand over transportation expenses and any other payments in cash.
I’d hate for this to lead to trouble later and for the club to have to bill the gentleman…
Thank you for your cooperation.
Other
I’m curious why he’s sending the money without meeting, though…
(I’m worried this might come across the wrong way—I’m not very good with words.) I do think the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market tends to favor arrangements that offer high income for little time—in other words, good value for money.
That said, women aren’t naive either, so I’m sure they understand that higher returns also mean higher risks.
So rather than a bank transfer, I think women would probably appreciate LINE Pay or PayPay more!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> “Women want to make as much money as possible in as little time as possible.”
Isn’t that true of most people, not just women? If you’ve been spending a long time earning only small amounts, I doubt you have that much money either. Are you one of those people who just happened to come into money from your parents?
Something about what you’re saying feels off.
And before talking about simply transferring money without meeting, why not just give money away on Twitter like those “money-giving uncles” do?
You come across as the typical kind of person who talks but never actually follows through.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Way too late… You should’ve known that before signing up, right? It’s the same with part-time jobs, office work, investing—everything.
Knowing that, what do you have to offer?
Giving money is easier, of course, but things other than money matter too—for both men and women.
If you can show genuine respect in some way, you can build a relationship that lasts a lifetime, no matter where you meet. After all, everyone wants at least one man who’s understanding, easy to talk to, comforting, and generous—someone their female friends would call a real gentleman when they’re around him. (And by “gentleman,” I don’t mean his looks.)
Also, if I use my real name, the other person naturally tends to use theirs too, either on the first day or soon after.
And you really need to understand that we’re living in a stressful society and a smartphone era where, allowance aside, people often find it a hassle just to meet anyone. That applies to the other person—and to you, too…
Other
I’m not really sure I understand!
What do you mean by sending money without meeting? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
Do you mean you want to know my real name?!
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve made a bank transfer once too, but there are various issues with them, so now I only pay in cash. In my case, we only meet twice a month, so I look forward to seeing her as well.
Since we message each other every day, she seems to enjoy being able to talk about things she normally can’t share, which also helps relieve her stress.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d like to make as much as possible in as little time as possible too.
I wonder if there are any good opportunities out there. I’ll keep working hard today as well.
If they’re willing to transfer the money without you doing anything, you’d think they could at least give you their bank account number.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Sending money without meeting feels creepy when you think about it normally—it seems like there must be some ulterior motive...
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The papa is looking for all of the following:
- A face he personally likes
- Breasts he personally likes
- Private parts he personally likes
- A waist with the curves he personally likes
- A personality he personally likes
- An allowance he personally likes
- An age he personally likes
Since men on the papa side expect at least this much from women, only someone living in a fantasy world could criticize women who are searching for a generous (well-paying) papa by calling them “all about the money.”
At the end of an adult date (intimate), casually handing her the allowance for next time will make her happy.
Once you become close, though, she’ll start volunteering her personal information and locking onto you even without being asked. There are fewer girls whose bank accounts I don’t know than those whose accounts I do.
If you consistently give a relatively generous allowance and avoid unnecessary extras—like overly long dates—your PJ will eventually introduce you to her friends and family as “my papa♡”
I sometimes get invited out for tea, without an allowance, by a former monthly arrangement I ended after becoming more serious about another activity.
She once told me:
“You’re the first person I’ve ever wanted to see even if I had to pay.”
So I replied:
“But if I were only giving you fifty thousand yen per meeting, we wouldn’t have become this close, right? Ninety percent of a man’s value is ultimately how good he is as an ATM. His personality and character make up the other ten percent.”
She said:
“True lol♪
But it’s because you understand that so well that young girls like you♡”
We both laughed.
If you can set aside your pride as a man in the best sense and fully embrace being an ATM, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) will become even more enjoyable. So, questioner, please give the girls plenty of allowance—and don’t do anything unnecessary. Mind your manners♪