I assume we communicate with the man through the club from the offer until we meet, but his replies are extremely slow.
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I received an offer the day before, but I wasn’t available, so I quickly sent him some alternative dates and we’ve exchanged messages several times. However, it takes about 3–6 days to hear back from him every time.
Does he not actually want to meet me? Is he just naturally bad at keeping in touch? What could it be?
Or is this just how things work until the first meeting is finalized?
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This may be a little different from your situation, but in my case, I make offers to the girls in order of priority. If our schedules don’t line up soon, I move on to the next one.
If I ever come across someone whose profile makes me think, “I absolutely want to meet her,” I might try suggesting different dates several times. But whether our schedules line up at the start is also a matter of fate. It’s not really about whether either of us wants to meet—it just means it wasn’t meant to be.
I’ve never hit it off with someone after things got bogged down during scheduling, whether on an app or through a dating club, so that’s how I handle it.
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When I’ve received offers, I’ve usually been given three to five possible dates and asked to let them know which worked best for me—or to suggest other dates if needed. So this may be a fairly unusual case. Perhaps he’s extremely busy, or his work makes it difficult to plan ahead.
That said, you have your own schedule to consider, so if you think you can accommodate him, why not consider making the arrangement?
Since it’s a great offer, I hope you’re able to meet successfully! :)
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The opposite happens quite often too.
But I don’t complain about every little thing like that.
Besides, keep in mind that you’re the one receiving an allowance.
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I can’t tell whether the long gaps between messages mean he’s busy, not really interested, doing it intentionally, or simply being careless.
Generally, I think people usually get back to you by the next day at the latest so they don’t tie up the other person’s schedule.
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Since he’s making offers the day before, he may be someone whose schedule is difficult to plan around. If you don’t like the late notice, I think it’s perfectly fine to turn him down. It’s frustrating when you can’t schedule other dates because you’re keeping that time open.
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