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May 19, 2022 23:38
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Other
I can’t tell from appearances either. Come to think of it, I once dated a handsome guy who would finish really quickly, lol.
Other
Some people’s looks and performance don’t match, while for others, they seem to go hand in hand (*^^*)
So I guess the answer is that you can’t really know (⑅•ᴗ•⑅)◜..°♡
Other
All I know is that we seem to click and he’s a good person. It’s all too common for someone to be really nice but not very good in bed.
Marika
Other
Maybe I’m just inexperienced, but I still don’t really understand what people mean by “physical compatibility” (lol).
I only have sex with girls I like and feel a connection with, so I’ve never thought we were incompatible—and I’ve never ended a relationship because of poor physical chemistry.
Maybe my brain is just wired to keep me happy.
Other
Isn’t that more about emotional compatibility? I think that definitely exists.
There’s also such a thing as purely physical compatibility. You can probably understand it by asking women who work in the sex industry or reading those kinds of forums. They seem to find themselves thinking, “Why him of all people???” while their physical reactions just won’t stop. From my own experience, I don’t think it’s all that rare—maybe around 5%. You can’t help it when it’s simply a physical reaction, but someone like you would probably get hurt, so it’s better not to work in the sex industry (though I doubt you’re planning to).
Some people dismiss it as fantasy, and in a sense, they may be right. But I don’t dislike the way you think. There’s no doubt that believing in someone can reach them and lead to a genuine emotional connection. In fact, I feel that without that kind of temperament, it’s difficult to become truly close. Looking back on my own past, that’s how it was for me too. But when you spend too much time playing around, you lose sight of those初心 feelings and end up mass-producing amateur-style escorts, which I’ve been feeling isn’t a good thing lately. So I hope you’ll continue down your own path without losing your way.
Taro
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I honestly have no idea. I once had a hard time with a papa (a male supporter) who seemed like a real gentleman but had the unusual preference of wanting to try both being extremely submissive and extremely dominant.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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That does happen sometimes.
But there are also times when you can’t tell at all.
Huh? In that case, you really don’t know them at all.
More importantly, you can usually tell right away whether you click with someone instinctively—whether you’re a good fit just by seeing their face.
Ah, but that’s probably because I’m not handsome, so the women who approach me are limited…
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I don’t feel that way.