It’s hard to talk to the people around me about doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or being a mistress. But since the women registered with Universe are in the same situation, I feel like we could share experiences, get advice, and discuss our concerns.
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Is there a community like that?
Even if it isn’t run by Universe, I’d appreciate it if you could let me know about any such communities.
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I feel the same way as you sometimes. When you’re alone, you want someone to listen to you or someone you can talk things over with, right?
I talk to my best friend about it.
I hope you can find someone you feel comfortable talking to as well.
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I’m not sure if this is just an urban legend, but apparently on social media there are groups of girls brought together by someone who “runs” Minato Ward—or someone who arranges introductions?
Maybe I’ve just watched too much *Ushijima the Loan Shark*.
There are people I don’t want to get too close to and people I’d like to be friends with, so hopefully we can get along♪♪
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> I feel like the Q&A box serves a similar purpose.
People can hear different perspectives, get advice, and talk through their worries. Since everything is public and the occasional strange question gets mixed in, though, maybe that’s why some people don’t see it that way.
Basically, it seems like you can get advice and discuss your concerns here.
And once you move from being the person asking questions to the person answering them, I think some things start to look different too.
Back before the internet, there was something called computer-based communication, and communities like these existed there as well.
Grassroots BBSs were often quiet because not many people came to check them, while on major services like NIFTY (Serve) and PCVAN, there sometimes wasn’t a place specifically dedicated to what you were looking for.
When that happened, the usual approach seemed to be creating such a space yourself within NIFTY, or starting a thread on a grassroots BBS.
These days, everyone is connected through the internet, so there’s no need to look up the phone number for a grassroots BBS anymore. (Some people might say, “A phone? What’s that?” haha.)
With social media so well developed, it’s easy to create a space like that now.
It’s a great time to be alive: if you feel something doesn’t exist, you can simply create it yourself. So I think you should build your own community.
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They say you can only have one best friend—if you have two, neither is really your best friend. Since there are things you can talk about with a true best friend, is there anyone you feel that way about? If not, try finding a woman or man who could become that person. I think everyone should have one such best friend in their life. Actually, I think everyone is better off having one!
You could meet someone like that anywhere—the possibilities are everywhere.
You don’t really need a lot of friends. I think it’s more important to have one person who immediately comes to mind when you think, “This is my best friend.”
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Maybe try reaching out to papa-katsu accounts on Twitter? But some of them are fake female accounts run by recruiters, so you need to be savvy.
I’ve only told friends from when I worked at a lounge, and I don’t talk about it more than necessary. In general, even if you make friends through papa-katsu, I think it’s best to tell only one person.
That way, if something happens, you’ll know who to suspect.
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Women have a tendency to exaggerate a little, so even if a community like that existed, people would become suspicious and emotionally drained.
Not everyone gets offers, so there would probably be jealousy from the girls who receive fewer offers, along with constant one-upmanship. It would likely turn into a very toxic community.
It would be just like a workplace full of women. Do you really want nothing more than superficial small talk? You might end up exposing your private life, too.
No thanks—I’d rather keep my peace of mind and simply enjoy myself with someone I like.
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I’ve been thinking something similar lately too, and was considering creating a group chat with some new answerers.
By the way, I’m hopping between men’s esthetic salons today. The girl I’m about to see is a very famous therapist, so if she’s my type, I might try hitting on her. (Sorry, I’m such a scumbag.)
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