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May 13, 2022 23:13
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We first met about four years ago and saw each other for around six months, but we took a break because I became busy expanding my business and needed funds. After some time had passed, we met just once for tea.
Then, quite unexpectedly, we reconnected six months ago. My circumstances had settled down, and we hadn’t ended things because we disliked each other, so our relationship resumed and has continued to this day.
We know each other much like a typical boyfriend and girlfriend would—including personal information—and we’ve talked about various things from our pasts, so I feel we’ve probably built a certain level of trust.
The other day, we went on our first day trip together. It was something like a picnic.
Unfortunately, it was colder than expected, and she got chilled and looked cold. From the atmosphere, I honestly felt that she hadn’t really enjoyed herself. She was also dozing off on the train ride home, so we didn’t talk much… I was feeling disappointed on the way back when she messaged me:
“Thank you for today! I’ll send you the photos later!”
She sent them afterward.
I knew she had taken some photos, but what surprised me was that I appeared in several of them.
There was one photo where about 70% of me was in the frame, taken from diagonally in front, as well as a photo of me from behind.
I hadn’t noticed her taking them at all, so I was honestly surprised.
I can’t help wondering what they meant, and I still don’t know.
It also felt a little strange that she didn’t share them right after taking them—or on the way home.
What kind of feelings could this indicate? Of course, maybe they don’t mean anything significant.
I understand this is only speculation, but I’d like to hear what everyone thinks.
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Other
I don’t think he means anything by it, but if you’re worried, just tell him, “Please don’t include me in any photos” (๑>◡<๑)
Married people generally don’t want to leave much of a photographic trail, right?
Other
I also sometimes share photos of my papa (a male supporter) from behind after we part ways following a trip together.
It probably doesn’t mean anything deep, but I do think she likes you to some extent. That said, I can’t say whether her feelings have reached the level of “I really love you.” Still, plenty of girls would do this simply because they like someone, so you don’t need to worry.
As for sending it later, she may have just forgotten, or perhaps waited until she was on Wi-Fi at home so it wouldn’t use up her mobile data.
You don’t need to read too much into this.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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If there’s nothing going on, then there’s probably no reason to worry. But if he has a wife, the photo could potentially be used as leverage to threaten him—even if only as a joke.
So far, it doesn’t sound like she’s said anything particularly concerning, such as “I’m going to your house,” so I don’t think you need to worry about things like her saying, “I’ll put it in your mailbox.”
Let’s hope she was simply having such a great time on the picnic that you happened to appear in the background of the photo.
If she liked him enough to feel jealous, she might have deliberately sent it later—rather than sharing it immediately, since it would have been deleted—to make sure he knew he was clearly in the picture and keep it as something she could use later. But if, when they met again, things went back to a normal club allowance arrangement, then I don’t think there’s anything to worry about.
Other
I’m surprised you didn’t notice that you were being photographed from a slightly angled, front-facing position!
Maybe they simply thought, “I’d rather send all the photos at once later, when I have time.” People don’t always share them right after taking them. If you went somewhere far away and took lots of photos, I don’t think it necessarily means anything deeper…
If anything, I’m more curious what you imagine it could mean.