I currently have a regular papa (a male supporter), and I feel fulfilled both financially and emotionally. However, he loses his erection after penetration, so I’m not physically satisfied.
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I know this is a privileged problem to have, but after reading Mac’s column, I’ve been increasingly curious about going to a swingers’ club. I find myself wanting to watch other people, and wanting someone to watch me while I’m with someone else. At the same time, I absolutely can’t tell my papa. Is there any good way to resolve this?
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Would it be okay to ask him to take medication so he doesn’t lose his erection?
Regardless of the erection issue, do you want to try going to a sex club?
If so, as everyone has said, please be careful to avoid your papa (a male supporter) finding out, and protect yourself from STIs. Enjoy yourselves, but stay safe.
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If you go to a swingers’ bar expecting something unexpected to happen, then it’s not really unexpected anymore, is it...?
I vaguely recall someone from the Social Democratic Party saying that “swingers’ bar” is false advertising and that the Constitution should be amended to rename them “predetermined-outcome bars.”
As for the questioner, I think you should simply make a reverse offer to some of the people answering here.
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If you write in your profile comments, “Someone please take me to a hapバー (swingers’ club),” people searching for one may find you and make you an offer.
You can absolutely leave just from talking there, so you don’t have to worry about STIs. If it were a scary place, it would go out of business quickly.
I went about seven times, and once I’d had enough of the experience, I stopped going.
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Financially and emotionally fulfilled, but physically…
I went through the exact same thing for a while, and I used to go to swingers’ bars and BDSM bars!
But in my case, it wasn’t so much that I wanted to play—I just wanted someone to talk to and listen to my worries.
As everyone has mentioned, there are risks like diseases, so—though this may sound harsh—it’s true that going casually as a beginner could end badly (crying).
You should definitely go with someone experienced, haha.
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I don’t feel that your papa losing his erection and wanting to visit a swap bar are directly connected.
If you want to go to a swap bar, I think it would be fine to go alone. If you’re hesitant to go by yourself right away, you could make a reverse offer to Mac—I think he’d take you.
Whether the reverse offer works out may depend on how sincerely you can convey to Mac that you really want to go.
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Even if he loses his erection, couldn’t you still be satisfied with adult toys and the like? Sometimes, after plenty of foreplay—or after seeing his partner climax several times—a man may get hard again. Am I the only one who feels scared that going to a swingers’ club could lead to an STI infection?
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I wouldn’t want to be watched myself, but I’d love to try watching others (*'▽'*)♪
Mac’s beginner’s guide to play bars was really interesting!
Let’s wait for Mac’s answer（笑）
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Why not look for a papa (a male supporter) who’s open to that kind of thing?
Your current monthly arrangement papa may disapprove of seeing multiple people, but there’s no guarantee that he’s exclusively seeing you either.
Everyone has different interests and preferences, so you might find a papa who’s interested in going to a sex club…
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If your papa doesn’t find out, I think it’s okay to quietly satisfy your own desires. Just make absolutely sure he never finds out—that’s the proper etiquette. And be especially careful about diseases.
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One option would be to make Mac an offer yourself and ask him to take you to a swinger’s bar.
That said, this probably won’t work unless you’re his type.
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