I met a man for the first time through a papa-katsu app, and we ended up talking about having sex next time. He said things like he couldn't stand passive women, women whose moans were too loud, women who smelled even slightly down there, or women who were bad kissers, among other things.
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After hearing that, I thought, “I need to be careful when I have sex with this guy,” and started looking into what kind of sex men enjoy. When I told another man about it, he asked, “What kind of guy says things that lower a woman’s mood before they’ve even had sex?”
He suggested that instead of trying to impress him, I should say this when we meet on the day we actually have sex:
“When we first met, you talked at length about all your preferences regarding sex, so I figured you must be incredibly good in bed! I’m really looking forward to today!”
Then, smiling, I could put pressure on him by adding, “Since you had so much to say, you must be exceptionally good in bed, right?”
Wouldn’t that backfire?
Hmm, I think nobody likes it when someone is completely passive or smells down there.
Whether you say that at the first meeting or not probably depends on the person, though. I don’t think most people would say it…
That man must have had a bad experience in the past(´；ω；｀)
Of course, keeping yourself clean is a given. As for how loud someone is or how passive is “too passive,” that really comes down to compatibility, I think〜❀.(*´▽`*)❀.
If I thought, “What a rude person!” I probably wouldn’t see him a second time〜✩.*˚ (I was just told something rude myself recently.)
So for me, it’s not about whether to say it or not—I simply wouldn’t meet him again.
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The papa who said that sounds strange too. And the man you consulted? You must be quite close if you can talk to him about papa-katsu, but I’m not sure that advice is any good either.
Universe is better than apps, so I’d recommend Universe.
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It’s fine to say it—it won’t backfire or anything.
Men don’t need to say something like that, but regardless of gender, it’s only natural that no one would be happy if their partner turned out to be like that.
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That man probably has had fewer than five sexual partners—I couldn’t help laughing.
Men who have always been popular or are used to visiting sex workers probably have little to no desire like that.
Nobody—man or woman—likes it when someone’s private parts smell bad, right?
Everyone has different preferences, but you should trust your own feelings and kiss the way that feels natural to you. Why should you have to adapt to him?
If things don’t go well afterward, take a shower and get dressed right away. Show him clearly that you never want to have boring sex with him again. He’s just someone you met through an app, right? He’s nothing special.
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What exactly are you trying to accomplish?
If your goal is to keep things going smoothly with your papa (a male supporter), then it’s obvious you shouldn’t say it. But if you want to get back at someone who said something irritating to you, then go ahead and say it.
If it’s the latter, I think you’d be better off not making a big fuss—just look at the man’s private parts and give him a silent little smirk.
Marika
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