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I’m always unsure when to put on a condom. I feel like putting it on from the start creates a bit of a pause, so putting it on right before seems best—but what do you think?

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I usually keep the condom under the pillow where it won’t be noticeable at first. Is that okay?
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I feel much more at ease when the condoms are left somewhere visible (⑅•ᴗ•⑅)◜..°♡ Even while he’s taking one and opening the package, I hate to waste time, so I keep going until the very last moment(笑) If he doesn’t have a preference, I’m usually the one who puts it on♪
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If by “right before” you mean right before penetration, then there’s no problem at all. But if you mean right before ejaculation, that’s a serious problem. If you mean right before penetration, I’m not really sure why you’re unsure about the timing. Would continuing as usual cause some kind of problem?
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I actually think it’s better to put it somewhere noticeable. There’s no doubt that doing it right beforehand is best.
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I leave it somewhere visible by the bedside and put it on right before insertion. There’s no need to hide the condom, and especially when meeting someone for the first time, I think it helps women feel more at ease if they can see it.
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Why hide it? I feel safer when you use a condom, so please leave it somewhere visible. As for when to put it on, if she’s experienced, have her do it. If she isn’t, there’s a risk it could tear, so you should put it on right before insertion.
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Putting it somewhere visible—brilliant idea. I’ll do that next time.
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I think it’s best to put it on right before penetration. While she’s taking a shower, I place the condom somewhere visible on the bedside table.
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I agree with Marika. As long as it’s on when he goes in, I’m fine with it. And so he understands that it needs to be put on from the start, I’d like him to leave it somewhere visible or bring one with him.
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I think it’s enough to make sure it’s on when the time comes. Rather than keeping it hidden, it may be reassuring to leave it somewhere visible so they know you’re going to put it on. Personally, I don’t like putting it on for someone else. Marika
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It’s a good idea to have her put it on for you! Then things will happen naturally without you having to think about it every time.
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