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Apr 9, 2022 23:53
9 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I only have one main papa, so I don’t really get anxious about it. It always comes by the next day, so I look forward to it（笑).
Other
I’m starting to get hooked on the whole “You again?” thing.
If you’re the type who can spread things out, I think that’s probably better! If you only have one person, you start feeling lonely and wondering, “Did they come to dislike me?”
So men feel that way too, huh? (*^^*)
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never gotten anxious just because someone didn’t respond on LINE.
The reason I’m seeing multiple women is simply that I want to see different women’s sexy sides.
Why not send women who reply quickly on LINE ¥10,000 per time via LINE Pay? I think they’d start responding even faster, and you wouldn’t have to feel so restless.
Other
In my case, I always have a primary partner, so I date multiple people.
I’m also seeing several girls through a dating club. I’m quite ambitious, and as that drive has grown, so have my other desires. As Mac mentioned here in the Q&A, I realized he was exactly right: what I was looking for in these relationships was more than sexual desire—I wanted romance.
It’s not so much about time as it is about emotional weight. One primary partner alone couldn’t meet all of it, so perhaps I’ve found a way to make good use of the dating club.
I’m not sure whether to call this whole situation restlessness or something else, but this arrangement keeps me stable.
Other
I joined a dating club to spread out my affection because I’m too deeply in love with my main partner.
I’m naturally quick to respond, so I tend to feel unsettled when someone doesn’t address my questions promptly…
I feel calmer when I can maintain arrangements with three to five people at all times.
Other
It’s often said that seeing multiple women is more stable. If there’s a woman you consider your main partner, it’s better to have someone else as well.
For example, pair a stunningly beautiful but high-maintenance woman with someone who may be less attractive but has a great personality and really likes you. Different types work best.
It’s a way to let off steam from dealing with your main partner—or like having a relief pitcher ready when things aren’t going well.
Before long, your closer may be taking the mound as early as the second inning, but there’s a certain charm to that situation too.
Taro
Other
There are men who don’t get anxious over just one woman. Maybe you simply lack confidence and composure as a man.
For some people, dating multiple women gives them the kind of relaxed confidence talked about in pickup theory, which may make them seem more attractive to women. But that doesn’t mean dating multiple people automatically makes every man more appealing… A man’s charm comes from other qualities.
And don’t forget that multiple partners also increase the risk of STIs. Good luck.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether it’s with one person or several, if they don’t reply quickly, dating them isn’t enjoyable.
Besides, if they take ages to respond, that’s not really a relationship, is it?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You again.
If that’s how you feel, then I don’t see a problem with it.