I’m 23 and graduated from university this year.
I went through kindergarten, elementary school, middle school, high school, and university,
but I don’t have any friends.
I have 694 people on LINE,
broken down as follows:
My mother: 1
Papa (male supporters): 693 (old men who pay money in exchange for sex)
I can get through life without friends, but is it really okay to stay this way?
Do you think friends are necessary?
For some reason, I feel like I click with papas who don’t have many friends themselves, so those arrangements seem to last longer.
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The fact that she calls him an “old geezer” makes her seem like the kind of person who’d naturally have no friends.
If she really has that many papas, though, I don’t see what the problem is.
Looking more closely, this is the same person who was choosing women in their teens in late March, then suddenly became a woman in her twenties one day.
I thought maybe she’d turned 20 because her birthday had come, but 23…?
She was apparently someone who told a lot of lies.
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Another back-to-back post, I see.
It’s a shame to waste it on a throwaway insult like “old geezer.”
You seem fine just as you are.
If you really have that many papas and are seeing all of them, you must be financially comfortable, and with your schedule so full, you probably never have to worry about being bored.
On the other hand, without papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you’d have no one to see, so you should really be glad papa-katsu exists.
If that number isn’t made up, writing a Twitter novel or blog about how you met all those papas and what your day-to-day activities are like could be interesting—and might even turn into a business.
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Some people need friends, while others are perfectly fine without them.
To start with, why not declutter your list of 693 papas by removing those you don’t click with or no longer meet? I think it’s important—whether with possessions or relationships—to keep only what truly matters around you.
As adults, we sometimes have to maintain relationships with people we don’t really get along with because of work. But this is your private life, so I don’t think you need to force yourself.
The same goes for friends. If you’re constantly worrying about how to act around them or find being together painful, maybe you don’t really need that friendship.
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The definition of “friend” is difficult too, but regardless of how the other person sees me, I’d say I have about five close friends.
Some of them I don’t even see once a year.
There are also people who seem stressed because they have too many half-hearted friendships, so I think the role friends play in enriching your life is different for everyone.
Honestly, rather than going out drinking with old classmates or former coworkers, I find it much more enjoyable to have drinks or play golf with the older gentlemen who support me professionally or with fellow business owners my age.
You should also stop spending time with boring friends or papas, and instead choose people—whether friends or papas—whose company you genuinely enjoy and who make you feel fulfilled.
In short, whether you need friends or not is up to you.
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When I read various books, I find completely opposing claims: that you don’t need friends to succeed, or that not having friends shortens your lifespan.
I used to think I was perfectly fine on my own—I could go out to eat or sing karaoke alone without a problem. But since I wanted to live a long life, I thought I’d try making some friends!
Unfortunately, I struck out completely on Ji〇ty, and making friends is harder than I thought.
So now I’m glued to this Q&A site instead (lol).
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Having 693 papa friends is way too many, so I think you’d be better off narrowing it down to two representative papas—one with few friends and one with many—and getting to know them more deeply.
That way, you may also start to understand how to handle your relationships with your other friends.
Good luck!
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