Where do you all go for dinner with your dating partners?
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I took mine to a place that was kind of like a family restaurant, and they made a sarcastic comment: “It’s delicious, though it feels like a family restaurant.” (lol)
I make reservations at places with a nice atmosphere that are quiet and serve good food. For the first offer, I always book a private room. From the second meeting onward, I request either a private room, a booth seat, or at least a table that’s as secluded as possible.
I think she may be hinting that she’d like you to take her somewhere nicer.
I can’t tell whether the restaurant was really like a family diner, so it’s hard to know if she was being sarcastic. But if she’s someone you’d like to continue seeing, why not accommodate her request and choose a restaurant with a better atmosphere?
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As Aya said, with that kind of budget, I feel you can generally avoid comments like that.
I usually go to restaurants I’ve been to before or ones recommended through professional connections.
I like to look the part, so while good food is a given, I also care about whether the place is stylish and has a clean, well-kept feel.
That’s how I am even outside my relationships through a dating club, so I suppose it’s simply my personal style.
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I usually choose restaurants I feel like trying at the time. At first, I go with the woman’s preferences and pick somewhere a bit more upscale than what she’d typically budget for dinner with friends.
Personally, if someone said something like that, there wouldn’t be a next time. I don’t know whether they meant any harm, but the person hearing it would surely feel uncomfortable. I don’t want to get involved with someone who doesn’t have the consideration to realize that.
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If dinner for two costs ¥20,000–¥30,000, I don’t think anyone would say, “This feels like a family restaurant,” though. What do you think?
Today, I went out for soba with my papa and one of his subordinates. We ate fairly quickly and didn’t drink, and it came to just under ¥30,000 for the three of us.
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Since I’m on a low-carb diet, I usually go to restaurants known for good meat or fish.
Unless it’s an overly cheap-looking place, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a woman saying that. But since we don’t actually know what kind of restaurant it is, it’s hard to say for sure.
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While we’re still getting to know each other, I choose restaurants that won’t come across as too casual, like a family restaurant or an izakaya.
Once we’re more comfortable with each other, we might even go to a ramen shop depending on how the conversation goes. Sometimes we’ll have food from a love hotel or convenience-store bento, too.
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I’m back〜!
I’m not very good at picking up on sarcasm, but do you think that comment was meant as a dig too? Maybe she genuinely didn’t mean anything by it…
(I used to think Saizeriya was a fancy restaurant when I was in middle school!)
If it was meant sarcastically, I wouldn’t want to become the kind of woman who says things like that (>_<)
I’m honestly fine eating anywhere. Probably!
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