I’m a married woman in my early 30s.
I understand that married women are also registered here, but would a married woman over 30 still be able to meet someone with an allowance if he liked her…?
Or does everyone register while hiding the fact that they’re married…?
I’ve never done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) before, but I need money for a family matter and can’t tell my husband…
I’m not looking for a friend with benefits or anything like that, so if there’s no support involved, I’m wondering whether there’s any point in registering.
When I was around 25, I worked at a hostess club for about eight months, earning 5,000 yen an hour. I feel that my looks and communication skills are probably a little above average.
So, since affairs do happen, I guess married women can receive offers through dating clubs too!
I’m in my 30s as well. I worked up the courage to go to an interview, so let’s both do our best, questioner! (*^^*ゞ✩.*˚
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I’m currently seeing a married woman in her 30s (although she has since left the club).
It may not be legally acceptable, but she says that having someone fill the gaps in her home life has made her feel more fulfilled, and as a result, she’s able to be kinder to her husband when she goes home.
Everyone has different reasons for participating in club activities. It would be ideal if you could meet a man who understands and accepts your own reasons for being involved.
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Being married is a disadvantage, but I think there’s still demand.
You’re worried about seeing someone without an allowance, but if you go through a club, you’ll at least always receive transportation money for the first meeting.
If you properly negotiate the allowance before going to a hotel, you should receive the hotel allowance as well.
Otherwise, the man risks receiving a bad review from the club, which could affect his future activity there.
My impression is that men who want to meet without an allowance will usually ask if you can see them without one from the second meeting onward.
With men like that, you can simply say goodbye right away.
By the way, you mentioned working at a hostess club for 5,000 yen an hour, but I got the impression that the allowance you’re asking for might be a little high.
Since the number of offers is limited, I recommend not setting your expectations too high from the start. (That said, you don’t have to accept an offer that’s too low.)
Once you start receiving plenty of offers, I think it’s smarter to say goodbye to men who offer a lower allowance.
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It’s certainly possible.
That said, it’s true that you’re at a significant disadvantage in terms of the terms of the arrangement if you want it to continue long-term. After all, there’s no real reason for someone to choose a relationship with a person who has a lot of restrictions.
From the way you’ve written this, it seems like you’re already worried about that. But if you dwell on it too much, the man you’re seeing may stop enjoying the relationship as well.
On the other hand, if you become too carefree and forget that he’s accommodating all of your various restrictions, he may eventually get fed up and the relationship could naturally fade out without you even understanding why.
If your main goal is to make money, there are other jobs that can earn you money too, so it may be worth considering your options carefully.
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I think offers will come your way as long as you’re appealing, regardless of whether you’re single or married. An allowance-based relationship is assumed.
Whether you tell the other person—or mention it in your profile—is entirely up to you.
As Kazu said, men who prefer not to date married women often write in their profiles, “Married women, please don’t send me offers.”
Marika
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Yes, it’s fair to say that dating through an exclusive club generally presumes a relationship involving an allowance.
Profiles don’t indicate whether someone is married or single. Apparently, offers from men who want to avoid married women come with a message saying, “Please refrain from contacting me if you’re married.”
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