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Mar 28, 2022 22:49
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The papa (a male supporter) I’m supposed to meet tomorrow contacted me saying that a farewell party had suddenly been scheduled and asked if we could meet on another day instead.
I suggested a few possible dates and we were able to reschedule. I don’t dislike him, so it’s fine, but...
Does a farewell party really get scheduled so suddenly the day before?
Also, with things being the way they are, is it really safe to hold a farewell party? Are they taking proper COVID precautions?
7 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Although large-scale parties have been canceled, I don’t see a problem with a small farewell gathering of just a few people.
For a small farewell gathering, it wouldn’t be unusual for it to be arranged at short notice.
👨 Male
Universe member
It might be best to simply accept that you can’t meet tomorrow, note that another day has been arranged, and assume that something probably came up.
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It may have been decided around the time the quasi-emergency measures were lifted.
You always seem so suspicious of everything—it’s kind of sad.
Be careful not to annoy your papa (a male supporter) with all the complaining, or he may stop liking you.
Other
At some companies, transfers are decided fairly last-minute, and schedules can also suddenly change when an event is being held with a relatively small number of people.
March is especially the kind of time when that can happen.
I still had business dinners during the pandemic, but we kept the group size limited and held them at restaurants with proper safety measures rather than noisy, crowded places. That papa (a male supporter) may have been in a similar situation.
Other
Now that places can stay open later, I suppose something could have come up unexpectedly… But it’s also possible he made plans with another girl.
If he isn’t a papa you dislike and he was able to reschedule, I think you’ll both be happier if you trust him!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Is it possible for a work farewell party to come up the day before?
I’d say it’s possible.
> It’s not a big deal to me, though.
Then it seems like there was no need to ask in the first place. Are you asking about something you don’t really care about just because you want attention?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re being persistent.