When it comes to relationships, things can be completely opposite depending on the person.
A girl who’s a person to avoid to some people might be absolutely perfect for you.
Personality and attitude change depending on compatibility and the people involved.
Sometimes, a person to avoid attracts another person to avoid.
If anything, those girls might be the rare ones… You don’t see them around that often.
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What Fuu considers a person to avoid:
- Poor hygiene or a noticeable odor
- “Landmine” makeup or clothing
- Obviously misleading photos or profile
- Being blatantly focused on cutting the time short
- A completely unresponsive partner who shows no enjoyment
- Too many restrictions (no touching above the face, no nipples, no kissing)
- Money being the only thing on their mind
I only run into a few after making dozens of offers, so it’s not that common…
But it does happen occasionally.
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I think every man has his own criteria for deciding whether a PJ is a person to avoid.
Unlike Mac, I find it sad when someone ends things by leaving my messages unread.
Also, anyone who is okay with going without protection is a person to avoid for me.
On the other hand, I’m pretty tolerant of lateness. The woman I’ve been seeing the longest has never once arrived on time, lol.
Since I’m just waiting at the hotel, I don’t really mind.
Last-minute cancellations are a deal-breaker, but I’ve only encountered one through Universe Club so far, so I consider myself lucky.
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I’m Karasaki from Universe Club’s Customer Success team, and I’d like to answer as well.
As a club, we can’t recommend women who don’t respect the time and are five or ten minutes late. Women like that also have a higher likelihood of leaving the club.
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Women who have a lot of partners and engage in prostitution-like activities, have numerous friends-with-benefits, or quickly have unprotected sex—in other words, women who may be carrying an infection—are a serious concern to me as a woman.
They could potentially put me at risk through my papa.
I was once almost infected by a papa I trusted. I tested negative, but I was extremely anxious until the results came back. Ever since then, I’ve been especially sensitive about these things.
For everyone to enjoy seeing each other, both men and women, please—always use protection.
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Repeated last-minute cancellations, being emotionally unstable, saying she needed ¥1 million for tuition and then disappearing without a word—those are the things that immediately come to mind.
Mr. Mac,
You should probably stop bringing this up soon, as it’s starting to undermine your dignity.
And knowing the circumstances behind it all, I find it very painful—almost unbearable—to listen to.
Of course, you could simply not read it, but still.
I’m sorry.
Marika
Mr. Mac,
Since you wrote that it was about one person in the past, I mistakenly assumed you were referring to someone specific.
I understand now that you were speaking in general terms. My apologies.
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I’m a PJ who doesn’t get tested for STIs.
In the past, I’ve nearly caught an STI four times. Miraculously, I tested negative all four times. I’m not sure whether it’s because I work out a lot and have a strong immune system, or if I’ve just been lucky汗
The infections were:
- Chlamydia
- Mycoplasma
- Trichomoniasis
- Gonorrhea
- Syphilis
One person tested positive for multiple infections, so that makes five infections among four people.
Syphilis is the biggest hassle. You can’t find out whether you’re infected until a month later, so I underwent a month of treatment at my own expense while still not knowing whether I was positive or negative.
For the record, I get a full STI screening twice a month, including throat tests.
I’ve become so knowledgeable about this that I even learned HIV can sometimes be cured with medication if treatment starts within a week of exposure. It costs around ¥100,000 out of pocket.
I also get tested for hepatitis B and C.
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