A woman I started seeing a year ago left the club soon afterward, but I recently noticed that she had registered again. I’m a little shocked.
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Men, if you found out that a favorite woman had registered again, would you say anything to her?
Women, what kinds of reasons would make you register again even if you were still seeing someone? By the way, she has a papa (a male supporter) besides me.
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It may come as a shock, but at least it wasn’t hidden from you. I think you should accept the facts as they are and decide how you want to approach things going forward.
This isn’t limited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—we can’t control the other person’s actions or intentions. All we can do is keep that principle in mind while building the relationship.
Sometimes we end up seeing things we didn’t need to see and sabotage ourselves, lol. Ultimately, the relationship is something the two people involved build together.
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Why not try offering again? !(^^)!
What kind of feeling made you say you were “shocked”? From your message, it sounds like that feeling came from thinking, “I’d like to see him again, but…”
If you’re still thinking about him, why not exchange messages through Letter Date? If you hit it off again, you can always meet up another time(^○^)♪
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Maybe she broke things off with one of her papas (male supporters)? Or perhaps her lifestyle got more expensive, so she needs even more money.
Even if she hasn’t re-registered, she could still be active on an app or with another club. No one really knows what’s actually going on.
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It probably depends on the nature of your relationship.
It also matters how the girl you’re seeing views you and your place in her life. Since she didn’t hide her profile after reconnecting with you, she may either think you won’t find out, or feel that it wouldn’t matter if you did—perhaps because she’d be okay with the relationship ending, or because she already knows you have other papa-katsu partners, so it wouldn’t affect things.
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I probably wouldn’t say anything, but one woman I was still seeing once asked if it would be okay for her to register again.
I told her, “I wouldn’t really recommend registering again, but it’s your choice, so it’s fine.”
In the end, she didn’t re-register.
Sometimes I wonder if we might have stopped seeing each other had she registered again. On the other hand, since she didn’t, I ended up being her only supporter, which may be why things have continued. It’s complicated.
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Why not ask what happened?
Now that you know he really did leave the service, at least you can feel reassured about that. There may be a perfectly good reason, though the opposite could also be true…
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