At first, she was extremely grateful for the gifts and allowance, but lately all I get is a brief thank-you on the spot, and she’s stopped sending thank-you messages afterward. That said, from our conversations, she still seems interested in continuing our relationship.
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I’m not happy about it, so I’m thinking of acting a little more distant and seeing how she reacts, even if it means being prepared for the relationship to end. What do you all think?
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Maybe you’d feel less burdened if you stopped feeling like you had to do things for her—for example, by no longer giving presents.
Fuu doesn’t need a thank-you message. If she shows her appreciation when we’re together and puts in her best effort during sex, that’s enough for me.
I’m not really good at playing games, like deliberately keeping my distance the way students might. Besides, I don’t think that kind of strategy works very well in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) anyway.
Though if I distance myself, she might start looking for another papa (a male supporter)...
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Everyone I see, including the woman I’ve been seeing for a long time, expresses her appreciation both in person and over LINE.
Maybe the women’s attitudes have changed, but are you, the questioner, exactly the same as before?
People want different things, of course, but I believe that maintaining the status quo is the beginning of falling behind. As my relationships with these women have deepened, I’ve increased their allowance, so perhaps they’re giving more in return as well.
I also feel that, as the relationship progresses, there are more ways to show consideration beyond just the allowance.
Of course, I only do this for someone I genuinely like. So if you don’t even like the person you’re seeing, I think you should just do whatever you want.
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You don’t need to send a thank-you text, and even a brief thank-you isn’t necessary—a simple greeting is enough, isn’t it?
When someone is always so meticulous about things like that, it makes it obvious they’re used to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and honestly, it puts me off.
Are you looking to enjoy a relationship?
Or are you just expecting something in return for what you provide?
Which is it, exactly?
Do you genuinely want a partner, or do you simply like her that much? Women aren’t replaceable commodities.
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Seen in a positive light, it could mean he’s gotten comfortable with you and no longer feels the need to be so formal. Doesn’t sending a thank-you message feel a bit like a hostess sending a sales message—kind of distant?
Taken negatively, though, maybe he’s gotten used to you and started taking you for granted. He may be cutting corners and just keeping you around as an option.
In other words, perhaps he’s become jaded.
Try it and see. If he still makes no effort and remains cold, it may be time to part ways.
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