I feel lonely, I’ve lost my motivation to live, and I’ve been thinking about dying more and more. I’m afraid that one day, on a whim, I’ll think, “Okay, I’m going to die,” and actually do it.
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Don’t you all feel lonely? What motivates you to keep living?
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When I feel like I’m not living by my own choice, I start wanting to die.
Whether I’m being pushed around by someone, constantly walking on eggshells, trying too hard to fit in, suppressing who I am, worrying about being disliked by society, following social norms too rigidly, or living completely dependent on someone else—
When I’m free to live however I want, according to my own choices, the urge to die fades.
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I’m on a Shin-kaisoku train from Kyoto to an office in Osaka right now. A high school boy sitting in the seat in front of me is eating whole-wheat biscuits. However, those biscuits are very obviously coated in artificially colored pink chocolate, so I can’t imagine they taste very good. I don’t feel like eating them, but if you’d like, questioner, you could try them as a little memento for the afterlife. We can talk after that.
Oh, and if you’re in the mood, read Uncle Vanya and go see the play too. Ruri-chan said it gave her hope to keep living.
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> Feeling lonely
Did you not get any offers from men on Universe?
I feel like just meeting someone can help ease the loneliness, but does it hit you after you get home or something?
I think it might feel a little different if you happened to meet one of those “gachi-koi” men at a dating club—men who mistakenly believe it’s real love.
I almost feel like I should introduce you to someone from my list of dangerous “gachi-koi” men.
Though, whether it’s good or bad to have a “gachi-koi” man pursue you… that’s a difficult one.
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I’m single, but thanks to the women I’m seeing, I never feel lonely.
Watching them gradually become happier is what motivates me for the rest of my life.
I’d recommend either finding a man to date or going to a psychiatrist to get some medication.
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When I was married, I used to wish I had a little more time to myself.
So now I’m enjoying my private time and living life on my own terms.
My motivation comes from work and dating women.
I hope you can find something enjoyable to look forward to as well.
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