I’ve had the same papa (a male supporter) for over a year, and neither of us has anyone else.

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However, I’m being transferred for work, so I’m thinking of using this as an opportunity to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But lately, during our intimate encounters, my papa has been saying things like “I love you” and “Will you still see me even if you move far away?” He’s also single and has said things like, “Why don’t we live together?” He tells me on LINE that it hurts not being able to see me because he loves me. When I was wearing a ring my parents gave me, he suddenly tried to take it off and snatch it away. He doesn’t know where I work or anything, but he does know my phone number. I’m prepared to end things, but I’m worried he might stalk me. Is there a good way to break up with him in this situation? Of course, I’m very grateful to him and I do have feelings for him, but I’m also a little scared. He’s a very generous (well-paying) papa and has given me lots of gifts.

Answer 1

I think it would be best to express your gratitude and let him know that you’re quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If he seems like the type who might turn into a stalker, be very careful about when and how you tell him.

Answer 2

Sounds like you had a good relationship（笑） I agree with Kazu, too. You may still be feeling reluctant to let go and haven’t been able to sort out your feelings yet, but I think you’ll gradually calm down. You probably just hadn’t imagined how a papa-katsu relationship would end.

Answer 3

If you feel like ending it, then ending it is the right choice. Even if you have worries, once you take action, things can usually be worked out afterward. If you’re grateful, be sure to tell your papa. I hope things can end amicably. It’s better to hold back your emotions a little and keep them in check. It’s me

Answer 4

I think it should be fine if you sincerely and repeatedly express how grateful you are for everything. Some people become stalkers because they feel, “They weren’t grateful enough!” or “I cared about them this much, and this is how they treat me?” So I think it’s best to make sure you clearly convey your appreciation for everything they’ve done.

Answer 5

I think it’s best to just be straightforward, without trying any tricks. That man will probably reach out to another woman before long, and being with her should help him forget about you.

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