How often do women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) generally think it’s appropriate to meet their papa (a male supporter) each month?
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She asked for 40,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, once a week.
The money isn’t an issue, but I’m not interested in having sex with the same girl every week, so I’ve put things on hold.
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There’s no need to put things on hold. If you don’t want to meet every week, tell her you’d prefer once every two weeks or once a month, and discuss what terms would work for both of you.
She probably wants ¥160,000 a month, which is why she suggested ¥40,000 every week. So you can probably assume she might agree to ¥80,000 every other week.
But since that isn’t what you want, if you’re okay with the possibility that you may not be able to pursue things with her after discussing it, you can simply stick to ¥40,000.
If you do want to pursue things with her, then just ask whether she’d be willing to do ¥80,000 every other week.
The fact that you’re putting things on hold suggests you’re okay if things don’t work out, so I think you should just tell her that directly.
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I’m having trouble because he says he wants to see me every week, but I have very limited availability.
So I guess it’s a matter of compatibility. If it were just a matter of matching my schedule with yours, and my papa (a male supporter) with your partner, everything would work out perfectly. But whether or not to pursue a relationship depends on more than that…
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I think she’d be very happy with either two pay-per-meeting dates a month at 8 each, or two adult relationships a month at 4 each plus two dinner-only dates at 4 each.
Alternatively, how about meeting twice a month for an adult relationship at 6 each, plus two dinner dates a month at 2 each?
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It varies from person to person and depends on the partner, so I don’t think there’s any standard number of times.
The only things that are clear are that the woman wants “pay-per-meeting, four times a month” and that you don’t feel like having sex with the same girl every week.
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I’m the type who prefers to build a relationship with just one person, and I feel that the more time you spend together, the closer you become (^○^)
If he’s seeing other girls as well, why not discuss your preferences and see if you can work out something like meeting once a month?
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