I imagine most ordinary people would feel uncomfortable with selling their bodies for money—or buying that kind of service—but the people here seem unfazed. Does that basically mean many of them are relatively insensitive to that sense of shame?
I’ve said this time and time again, but a dating club is a place to pursue relationships—not to buy or sell anything.
I think you’ll understand once you actually enter into a relationship.
That said, it seems there are quite a few people who have difficulty getting as far as actually dating someone through a dating club. So perhaps the person asking this question is only seeing the process leading up to a relationship and perceiving it as buying and selling.
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I think things like shame and pride can get in the way—and can even be seen as weaknesses.
That applies to everything: work, family, dating clubs, you name it. Letting go of shame and pride can have its benefits.
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It’s not human trafficking, so I’m not ashamed of it. We’re both consenting adults, I’m not forcing anyone, and it isn’t against the law.
People have different views on chastity, so if you want to arbitrarily think it’s shameful, that’s entirely up to you.
By your logic, women who want to marry into wealth would be shameful too, wouldn’t they?
If you’re aiming for absolute purity, why not join a Buddhist monastery or become Catholic and simply never have sex? That should satisfy your ideal of perfect chastity and moral purity. It sounds boring to me, so I couldn’t do it—but I do respect your honesty about your desires.
I couldn’t go my entire life without sex like you say you will. I’m going to enjoy myself. You should stick to the principles you’ve publicly declared—and remain sensitive to shame.
I’ve heard that if you’re still a virgin after 30, you can become a wizard. If I ever get the chance, let me know whether it’s really true.
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I’ve never felt like I was selling myself or being bought for money.
If anything, I’d say I’m providing my time. I offer the time we spend together, and what happens during that time is up to us.
Maybe you won’t know until you try it yourself?
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I don’t see it as selling or buying my body in the first place.
You say I’m unfazed or insensitive, but I think my values are the exact opposite of yours. I’ve never thought of it that way!
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A papa’s skill lies in doing everything possible—using every trick in the book—to make a woman feel like she isn’t selling her body.
That’s why I’ll give her an allowance for an adult relationship and then just go for a drive or have a meal together. Sometimes I’ll even provide the adult allowance without meeting her.
Of course I get pre-cum during our drive dates and dinner dates. That’s only natural—I’m sitting across from a woman so beautiful she doesn’t seem real. I may be a beast below the waist, but I’m desperately—truly desperately—pretending to be a gentleman so she won’t feel like she’s selling her body.
Being a papa is a tough job (><)
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