Tips Mar 15, 2022 03:08

Being with a stingy person is exhausting.

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Not only the allowance I’m handed while being told, “Sorry, this is all I can do,” but also the restaurants we go to—being asked, “You’ll finish it, right?” and then having small portions ordered because they say they’re full, or being made to eat convenience-store food instead of room service, or only being given water. Their shoes are flimsy, their clothes have been the same for years, and when I try to buy clothes, I’m told it’s a waste of money... I feel like my heart is becoming impoverished. Wearing cute clothes puts me in a good mood and helps me feel cute, which improves my day-to-day quality of life. I think buying some new clothes is good for my mental well-being, but I’m told that’s wasteful. Why did you get into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) if you’re so poor?
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I think you should fully enjoy being yourself when you’re alone or spending time with friends and family☆ Being around people whose values don’t match yours can sometimes pull you in a negative direction, right? If possible, it would be great if you could have a positive influence on the person asking the question and make spending time together enjoyable♪ It’s spring, after all, so it makes you want to switch to spring makeup and clothes (*^^*)
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you dislike it that much, why do you keep seeing that papa?
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
A stingy man A stingy man A stingy man
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I don’t think you need to force yourself to keep seeing someone. Wearing your favorite clothes and making yourself look nice can really lift your mood, almost like treating yourself. I think that’s perfectly fine. You don’t have to force yourself to accommodate other people! Spend your days in the way that feels best to you!
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If it makes you uncomfortable, it’s probably best to end things. Since there are women who are willing to accept men like that, they remain in the market—and more keep appearing. I think it’s simply the result of supply and demand working both ways between women and men.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
By the way, what would you think if the allowance were 100,000 yen? I think some women would still consider him a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter).
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End things with that papa and look for someone whose values align with yours. I think you’re fundamentally incompatible.
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The perfect song for you: “I’m not saying I hate splitting the bill!” (Tatsuo Kamon) It’s a pretty unusual—and oddly amusing—situation, so I’d file this person away as a funny story and focus on getting new offers. Taro
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