I’ve received several offers for letter dates, but some people ask for photos of me in my work uniform before we even meet, while others send me messages on LINE every single day even without making such requests. In my experience, people who message me that frequently tend to be demanding and troublesome when it comes to sex, while those who only contact me about scheduling have generally been sensible. So is it okay to ignore an excessive number of messages?
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Once the letter-date arrangement has been set up, what happens between the two of you is up to you.
So, regarding:
> Is it okay to ignore him if he contacts me far too often?
Yes, it’s fine to ignore him.
However, if you don’t say anything, the man may contact the club saying that you’ve stopped replying. This won’t affect your rating as a woman, but I think it’s better to send him a clear explanation.
In this case, you could say:
“You asked to see a photo of me in my work uniform before we had even met, and I got the feeling that we probably weren’t a good match. I’m sorry, but I don’t think my impression would change even if we met, so I won’t be able to reply any further. Goodbye.”
I also recommend asking the club, “Could you hide this man from my listings?” and having them do so.
You don’t want him holding a grudge against you.
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Someone who starts making all sorts of demands before you’ve even met…
If you give in and show them, they might not actually intend to meet you. I think you should clearly say no to anything you’re uncomfortable with, and gradually take longer to reply to their LINE messages. Little by little.
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I think it’s fine to ignore that man.
You should let the club know what actually happened.
I’m not particularly bothered, and I’m not asking for anything—just thinking out loud. But since they have a star-rating system, maybe men rated two stars or lower could be barred from using letter dates. I’m sure the club is considering various options too…
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I think excessive messaging can be a bit much, but only contacting someone about scheduling feels kind of dull too. I’ve never had an exchange like that. I wonder if many people have never written a thoughtful letter to someone else… Still, there are bound to be hits and misses, and I suppose that’s part of the appeal of letter dating.
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