There’s a papa (a male supporter) who looks like a handsome older gentleman, but he comes on way too strong with women and seems completely lacking in confidence. He seems desperate to keep women from leaving him.
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He once told me that he’d met several women before, but things always ended after a few months. I used to wonder why, since he’s handsome and seems kind, but after meeting him several times, I can understand why someone would want to end things with him.
He’d probably be quite popular if he were more composed and smooth. Would it be inappropriate to tell my papa (a male supporter) something like, “You’d be better off not coming on so strong”?
This is Nana Ayase ☆
What exactly do you mean by “pushy”?
Personally, I actually like being approached that enthusiastically…
There are people like me who are okay with it, so if it’s not for you, don’t force yourself—just say goodbye and leave her to another member.
That way, Universe benefits, and another member does too. Seems like a win-win to me.
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The more you chase, the more they pull away; the more you back off, the closer they come.
The harder you try, the more they leave—an increasingly vicious cycle that only makes you lose confidence.
I’ll teach you.
Paper Airplane
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I’m Kida, the representative.
Telling someone who’s dying of cancer, “Don’t look so hopeless. It’s all about your mindset—stay positive!” isn’t going to help. So why not try going at this handsome older guy with even more relentless energy than he has, for a set period of time?
First, message him on LINE every hour with things that are hard to respond to, like, “Ah, what beautiful weather.” If you know someone in IT, you could even make a bot.
When you meet, turn into a full-on affection machine and drain all his energy. I’m a finalist in the National Affection Championship, so I’d dedicate myself like a fucking athlete and become a sex machine.
Maybe then he’ll forget the pain of his cancer and show you a happy face.
If he were handsome, kind, and generous, he wouldn’t be making his way around to you in the first place.
You should act as the closer and aggressively collect money from all those pushy guys.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It depends on whether he’s actually having trouble with his current situation.
If he is, give him specific advice. Telling him something vague like “you’re being too pushy” won’t get the point across.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It seems difficult for someone to change unless they recognize the issue themselves. Even if they do realize it, they may still be unable to change.
If you’re okay with ending things with that papa (a male supporter), you could try telling him. But if he’s not very financially secure, he may also be quite prideful, so there’s a chance he could lash out...
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
It probably won’t make much difference, though lol.
The key question is whether you’re thinking about breaking up, right? I’m not exactly sure what you mean by being “pushy,” but if that’s something you can’t accept, then any further advice would be beside the point.
However, if you’re planning to stay together, it might be worth talking to him about it. For now, though, it sounds like you’ll need to be understanding of his pushiness lol.
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