A papa (a male supporter) I only see about once a month for an allowance of 50,000 yen sent me this mentally unstable-sounding LINE message: “You never contact me unless I reach out first, do you? I wanted to see you one more time before the end of the year, but while I was waiting to hear from you, my schedule filled up. I guess it’ll be after New Year’s.”
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He’s the one I care about the least among the papas I’m still seeing, so I’ve never invited him out myself. I’m more like, “I might see him if he contacts me.” If he were a generous (well-paying) papa or young and good-looking, I could understand it, but why does a low-paying papa I only see occasionally think that I’d be the one asking to see him???
I’m BB7.
If you only meet occasionally and don’t really care that much, isn’t that true for both of you?
“I don’t plan on meeting her before the end of the year, but I’ll keep her around just in case.”
“If I wait for her to contact me, I can always say, ‘My schedule filled up.’”
“I wasn’t planning to reach out—I was just waiting.”
“It’s not that I didn’t want to meet you…”
That’s probably about it, don’t you think?
Not that I know.
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I’m Kida, the person in charge.
Seriously, what do you think of yourself, keeping such an obvious pushover papa and then making fun of him here for content?
Do you really want to advertise yourself as some beggar woman who can’t cut off such a ridiculously low-paying, emotionally unstable papa?
That super-low-paying papa of yours isn’t getting messages from any of the girls, even though it’s December—the month of lovers—because he’s annoying.
All it would take to have him wrapped around your finger is a simple “I’m sorry,” yet here you are complaining about him here.
Go on, make yourself feel good by getting some money out of that low-paying papa.
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This is Nana Ayase☆
Sounds like your papa is sulking. If you have other people you can meet, maybe it’s best to part ways. Let someone who seems to want him have a chance.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m a papa (a male supporter) offering an allowance of 50,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis, with meetings once a month.
I know I’m a low-paying papa, but women still reach out to ask if we can meet this month.
You may be choosing your partners based on the size of the allowance, but not every woman does that.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
They probably want to draw out a message like:
“Sorry (＞人＜;) I’m sure you’re popular, ○○, so I figured you’d probably only be able to see me in your spare moments. I do want to see you, but while I was agonizing and hesitating, time just passed. I regret not telling you more proactively that I wanted to see you. Would it be okay if I sent you more regular LINE messages from now on?? ♡”
But if the questioner feels it isn’t worth it, it’s perfectly fine to just ignore them.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m not sending messages like that because I want people to say they want to meet me—I’m sending them because I want to hear words of rejection.
The point under discussion at this meeting is whether or not to include a response that follows the request.
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This is Fuu, your columnist.
Exactly. He’s completely misunderstanding the situation（笑）. If you send your papa the question exactly as written, I think he’ll understand and stop contacting you.
You’ll probably end up parting ways, so please let him go. There are women who would love an offer even from a pay-per-meeting papa offering 50,000 yen, or from a once-a-month papa—so give someone else the opportunity.
You’ll be free of an annoying papa, he’ll be able to date a nicer new woman, and a woman looking for an offer will find a new papa.
Everyone wins.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I don’t think he considers himself a low-paying papa because he doesn’t think an allowance of ¥50,000 is too little.
On apps, ¥30,000 is common, so he probably thinks, “I’m offering more than ¥30,000, so I’m not low-paying.”
He may also simply think he’s a great catch. There could be various reasons behind it.
Even if you figure out why, I don’t think it really matters. If you’re not interested, you can just stop replying.
He may invite you again if you don’t respond, and you can decide then whether to accept.
If you don’t want to accept, just end things.
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