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What do people who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) while married or in a serious relationship do if they catch an STI and pass it on to their spouse or partner?

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木田(社長)
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This is Kida, the representative. Why not just apologize? You go outside too, and you probably bring home all kinds of things—COVID, the flu, E. coli, salmonella, bifidobacteria, whatever, right? If you’re giving your wife an STI, that means you’re having sex with her too, doesn’t it? Isn’t that a good thing? You should have sex with your wife too. Being able to sleep with your wife is truly something precious, so I hope you’ll cherish it.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I would never pass anything on to my wife, either. I left that lifestyle behind more than ten years ago.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. My wife and I are in a sexless marriage.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. I feel like you may not be understanding the fundamental point. I suspect that many people in these arrangements either don’t have sex with their wife very often, or don’t have sex with their husband at all. In that case, I think they would notice once they contracted an STI, so it seems unlikely they would pass it on to their spouse. I think it’s more common for women to have a serious partner, but that’s precisely why women are asking men to use condoms. I really hope men will be considerate and do so properly. Even condoms aren’t 100% effective, but they still reduce the risk.
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This is Nana Ayase ☆ All I can do is sincerely apologize.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Whether she’s my main partner or anyone else, if I think I may have passed something on to her, I apologize. Is there anything else I can do?
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