Have you all met a woman who you feel is perfect in terms of looks, personality, and physical compatibility?
Including the women I met through apps before joining the club, I’ve met around 20 or 30 women, but I still haven’t found anyone who feels perfect in every way. *sigh*
I’m Taro, a male member.
Well, everyone keeps making offers every month while feeling the same way. In that sense, I hope you can take comfort in knowing that you’re not alone, and feel positive about the fact that what you’re doing is contributing, in its own small way, to keeping Japan’s economy moving.
By the way, there’s a story called “The Bluebird of Happiness.” Applied to this world, I suppose it’s like making all kinds of offers, only to have an amazing time when you finally sleep with your wife again after a long dry spell. I think someone from Takeshi’s Army—maybe Guadalcanal Taka—said that on Beat Takeshi’s All Night Nippon a long time ago.（笑）
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I haven’t made that many offers, but I still haven’t met the right person.
Well, meeting someone through a dating club probably isn’t all that different from meeting someone the usual way… haha.
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I’m in my 60s and feeling a little lost.
Maybe it’s because I’m meeting people—or because I used to meet people—that I’ve ended up answering questions too, while still wandering around myself (^◇^;)
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
First and foremost, it’s about having the other person see you that way.
I think what matters is being seen that way by your current partner—and by the people you’ll meet in the future.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
You might think, “I may never find anyone better than her,” and continue seeing her. But then again, you may wonder, “Maybe I’ll meet someone even better.”
So as long as that part of you still works, perhaps you just keep being active at this club forever?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
From a probability standpoint, you might meet the perfect woman on your very first date—or you could meet 200 women and still not find her.
In other words, the number of women you meet isn’t the point.
I’ve had adult relationships with roughly ten times as many women as you have, and I’ve come to think that if you set your ideals too high, there’s no such thing as a perfect woman.
Rather than expecting too much, why not first look for someone who offers a good balance of appearance, personality, and physical compatibility?
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Even when I think I’ve met a top-tier girl who has all three qualities, I look at the club’s website and see countless others who are at least more attractive.
This cycle of quickly losing interest and seeking someone at an even higher level has been going on for years, and I sometimes end up hating myself for it.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I care more about what’s on the inside, so even though I’m in my third year at the club, I’ve met about one woman like that every year.
Well, to be precise, looks are what initially attract me, of course—but what matters for continuing the relationship is personality.
Right now, I’ve found two great women at the same time, so it’s been difficult to make a new offer for the first time in a while.
Honestly, once a relationship gets started, women generally end up liking me, so the nature of the relationship is really up to me. The only question is whether I choose them or not.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer too.
As for “everything”… I’m not even sure a woman that perfect exists, so I think it would be difficult forever.
That said, I do think you can meet someone who comes close.
Well, you’ll find out if you join and make an offer.
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I wonder what they think of my looks. Since they’ve seen my photos and still made offers, I suppose I meet their standards.
I feel like more of them are drawn to my figure than my face, though.
As for my personality and physical compatibility, if we don’t click, it won’t last—and I’m the one who turns them down. One of them says meeting me was a miracle, but that we were meant to be. Another papa I see every week called me “a rare gift” just yesterday.
They treat me very well, so I assume they’re quite satisfied.
Marika
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I don’t think you’ll find someone easily unless you send out lots of offers. You may also just not photograph well, so try reaching out to around 1,000 people. I’m sure you’ll find someone.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think you’ll meet someone that quickly.
One papa (a male supporter) who’s very involved with his children said he dated a cabaret club hostess when he was 40, but it apparently ended after about a year. He said, “Now that I think about it, I’m not even sure we were really dating.” After that, he didn’t meet anyone he truly clicked with, and then, at 46, he happened to meet me through a dating club. We’re genuinely crazy about each other now.
The handsome papa I often mention here also said, “It’s been ten years since I seriously dated a woman and supported her financially.” From his late 30s through his 40s, he apparently had plenty of one-night stands with pay-per-meeting women and hostesses, but it made me realize just how incredibly rare it is for him to find a woman he wants to continue seeing.
There’s already a significant age gap, so relationships like this are difficult to make work. Why not think of it as a five-year plan?
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