I’m the one who asked about yakiniku earlier. There are tongs—one for each person from the start. But the moment I pick up mine, he says, “I’ll grill the meat!!” When he says it that forcefully, all I can do is say, “Oh… okay, then, please.”

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I casually asked him while we were eating, “How do you like your steak cooked, ○○?” Of course, he said well-done, which confirmed my suspicion. Normally, he could have asked me about my preference too, but he didn’t and simply brushed past it. He doesn’t even show any consideration anymore, and I’m starting to feel like he’s a self-centered man. Does this mean he’s just not a good match for me? Ayase Nana, I’m asking because these things have been piling up and irritating me. If they were small things I could put up with, I would have done so long ago.

Answer 1

I’m Ayase Nana♡ If you hate it that much, why don’t you just break up already? Why are you getting mad at me? If you’re going to get mad, don’t ask me anything. Even though I was told not to get angry…

Answer 2

I’m the loser male member who got baited into showing up… I don’t think the questioner is actually looking for an answer or advice. I think they just want to: “vent,” “have someone listen to them.” In situations like this, I’d look them in the eye, listen seriously, and say things like: “That’s not right. What a shame, especially when it’s such good meat. You’re absolutely right. Mm-hmm. That papa clearly doesn’t get it.” I’d keep listening to them vent without offering any advice of my own. Then, once they’d gotten it all off their chest, I’d invite them to my room by saying: “Well then, shall we go? ♡” Pretty sleazy of me.

Answer 3

I’m Aya, a female member. Maybe your experience working part-time at a yakiniku restaurant makes it hard for you to put up with this. A lot of people are particular about their meat, so I can understand where you’re coming from. That said, papas with a significant age gap are often pretty oblivious to how women feel, so you need to be direct or they won’t get the message. It might be okay to show that you’re a little annoyed. If he ignores you after that, just give up on the yakiniku restaurant.

Answer 4

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I think you may already realize deep down that this just isn’t going to work anymore. At least when it comes to yakiniku, your values are simply too different. Rather than trying to resolve things by forcing yourself to put up with it, I think the best option is to step away from yakiniku. As Mac suggested, if you want to enjoy high-quality meat cooked exactly to your liking, teppanyaki would be a better choice. If you push too hard to find a solution, you risk hitting one of his deal-breakers and ending things altogether, so I think it would be better to withdraw while you still can.

Answer 5

I’m Kazu, a male member. Papuwa’s answer is spot-on. It sounds like the woman has turned the questioner into a well-done old man. She no longer shows any consideration, and I’m starting to feel that she’s being selfish. I think he should simply tell her his preference: “I like mine rare—just seared on the outside.”

Answer 6

For “I’ll grill it for you,” the answer should be, “I’ll grill my own portion myself.” There are married couples who get along just fine even though they have different tastes in food. Please sing “Celery” with your papa (a male supporter). Marika

Answer 7

I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane. It sounds like you’d be better off ending things. Once they open up, most girls go out for yakiniku every week—sometimes even several times a week, going every time. Of course, they like their meat rare, and they’re perfectly in sync, working together to grill it without even having to say a word. They seem to enjoy not only eating, but also searching for restaurants. “You can eat it after grilling it for just a few seconds.” They can have plenty of fun together, and even discover new cuts of meat. I think a papa (a male supporter) who can perfectly coordinate both the meal and the timing of reaching the climax would be ideal. Also, if you can’t express your irritation even when you’re feeling it, I don’t think you’ll be able to keep holding it in forever. P.S. As for the papa you’re seeing, he’s the self-satisfaction type I mentioned in my answer to a previous question. “Not just in clubs, but in life in general, people are divided into those who want to make their partner happy and those who want to satisfy themselves. I think it’s more enjoyable to be a papa who gets to see lots of expressions of happiness from the woman.” He’s a completely self-centered type who doesn’t understand—or has never known—the joy on a woman’s face when she’s eating yakiniku.

I’m the one who asked about yakiniku earlier. There are tongs—one for each person from the start. But the moment I pick up mine, he says, “I’ll grill the meat!!” When he says it that forcefully, all I can do is say, “Oh… okay, then, please.”

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