I’m seeing a papa (a male supporter) who was born into wealth and inherited his parents’ assets and real estate, which are now his main sources of income. Since he hasn’t achieved success on his own, I find him shallow and lacking in ability. Yet he thinks he’s a specially chosen person, so I can’t respect him at all. However, he’s very good at escorting me at restaurants, and I enjoy that aspect, so I’ve continued seeing him.
My previous papa was someone who had made his own way in life, and I respected his abilities and character. But apparently he grew up poor, so he wasn’t good at escorting me, and I disliked that part of him.
It’s hard to find someone who has both qualities. Which type of person do you all prefer spending time with?
Then ask yourself, “What about me?”
You’ll realize you’re being cheeky and unappreciative.
You should at least be able to think, “Thank you for paying someone as young and inexperienced as me.”
—Akari
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Since both have their good points, I don’t really understand why you’re asking which one is better.
I think it’s best to focus on what you like about each person.
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Some are from families where everyone is a doctor, some came from the countryside and built a company from scratch before retiring, and some have lived abroad so long that they sound almost foreign when they speak. They’re all good people in their own ways, though there are also things about each of them that I wish they’d improve a little.
There are even some who seem perfect—almost too good for me.
I’ve continued seeing the ones whose less appealing traits are still within my tolerance.
Marika
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I’m Kaz, a male member.
For starters, I have very little respect for people who ask, “Would you rather eat curry that tastes like poop or poop that tastes like curry?”
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Personally, I’d date either man if I liked him and the good outweighed the bad. If I eventually couldn’t stand his negative traits, I’d simply end things.
But if I absolutely had to choose, I’m more attracted to men with a hungry, ambitious spirit who built their fortunes from scratch—they have a certain masculine charm. All of my current papas are like that, too. I once turned down a hotel invitation from a spoiled rich-kid type of doctor, and he harassed me terribly afterward. A friend of mine who works as a hostess in Ginza told me that those pampered heir types can be a real handful if you make them angry.
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