Can I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without losing my self-respect?
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Even when I sleep with a clean, acceptable papa (a male supporter), I feel my self-respect slipping.
Maybe it’s because they’re people with no common sense…
I’m letting someone with such poor morals touch me and entertaining him.
How should I approach papa-katsu men emotionally?
I’m Meg, a female member.
I think you should approach him with the mindset that you’re his one and only source of comfort.
No matter whether there’s a pandemic, work gets overwhelming, or he falls ill, strive to become someone he never wants to let go of, no matter what happens.
That’s how seriously I’ve devoted myself to my papa (male supporter).
Thanks to him, my self-esteem has skyrocketed, so I’ll be leaving the site.
Thank you all for everything.
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I think being cherished by a wonderful papa (male supporter) can actually boost your self-esteem.
Just don’t get involved with men who seem to lack common sense.
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Maybe I’m unusual, but ever since I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), my self-esteem has gone through the roof. I started when I was completely worn down by workplace bullying and domestic violence and felt like my life was over. My papas treated me kindly, I was able to save money, and after figuring things out through trial and error, my work started going well too. I’m truly grateful.
This may sound a little dark, but instead of letting your papa control you, maybe the key is to do papa-katsu in a way that lets you stay in control. In other words, you should be the one calling the shots. If some older guy looks down on you and treats you like you’re beneath him, of course your self-esteem is going to take a hit.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
I want to say, “Don’t criticize other people’s morals when you’re ignoring your own lack of morality!”
But I realize I can’t say that to the questioner either, so I’ll take it back.
What the questioner considers moral is something they’ve created within themselves, so imposing it on others would be presumptuous. Of course, it’s also something that belongs solely to the questioner, and no one else has the right to lecture them about it.
That said, developing self-respect and morality won’t earn you money or love, and there are all kinds of things you need just to survive, right? Maybe it’s precisely because you can feel despair in your loneliness that you have things you want to do.
Personally, I’d rather avoid spending time with people who are too hung up on morality and self-respect. I don’t have that kind of time to spare, lol.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I believe it’s possible to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without damaging your self-esteem. Self-esteem is something you hold for yourself, after all—it depends on how you choose to evaluate yourself.
If you feel like you’re being touched and entertaining people with no morals, then I think the easiest way to preserve your self-esteem is simply not to do papa-katsu.
It’s not something you have to force yourself to do.
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
I’m not sure what you mean.
For example, suppose you took a job at a company.
Would you lose your self-respect simply because the company’s president lacked morals?
I don’t think so.
Why not try looking a little more closely at the other person’s true character? I think what they’re saying will gradually start to make sense.
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