Tips Sep 16, 2021 19:22

On this Q&A site, I sometimes see questions with such specific details that a dating partner could probably identify the person asking right away if they happened to read them. Do you all add at least a little fiction? Whenever I see questions that seem like they’d make a partner furious or lose respect for them if they found out, I can’t help wondering.

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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. I don’t think anyone has noticed, since I haven’t written anything specific—but maybe I’m the only one who thinks that. Women have sharp instincts, so they may have figured it out. Still, I can’t stop answering questions(笑)
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer as well. As Aya mentioned, even when people claim they’ve identified someone online, it can be difficult to know whether they’re actually right. Whenever an incident occurs, many people try to identify the person involved. But those who take such claims at face value sometimes end up attacking people who have nothing to do with it, right? They think they’ve identified the person, but it turns out to be someone else. That happens all the time. So, you seem like the type of person who tends to believe other people’s identifications. Since that can be dangerous, I think you should understand that “identified” does not necessarily mean correctly identified.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member—the “loser guy.” I obviously add plenty of fake details, so there’s no way they’ll ever figure it out… right? Seriously? I’ll post things that are lies, but not exactly lies—like shifting the date by a day or two, or making it look as though I’m on a date with one of my other women I’m keeping on the back burner when I’m actually meeting a semi-ace. I figure I could avoid getting caught by saying we went to the Prince Hotel when we actually dated at the Hilton, for example. The only problem is, my persona is exactly the same, so if the woman I’m seeing had observation skills like Mac-san, she’d figure it out… The club coordinator handling my account reads this Q&A, so I can’t change my persona. And since they know exactly who my ace and semi-ace are, my coordinator is probably the person enjoying this the most. I even share breakups with them in real time. Of course, I don’t report sensitive things like badmouthing the women. I also report everything about my letter dates while respecting everyone’s privacy, hoping the information can be put to use in helping Universe Club grow. In business, information is everything.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. I feel the same way. Still, some people seem to come here and spill everything just to vent because keeping the deception and lies to themselves isn’t satisfying—or maybe they enjoy the thrill so much that they wouldn’t even mind getting caught. Pretty nasty, huh?
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I’m Aya, a female member. I feel the same way. But online, people can say pretty much anything, and they can always use “it’s just someone who looks like me” as an excuse to get out of it.
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