I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
If you give her lots of oral and make her come over and over, she’ll feel bad and return the favor.
Even girls who dislike giving blowjobs have started doing it—and even swallowing—after I made them come repeatedly and said, “I tried my best because you mean a lot to me.”
If you want someone to do something for you, start by doing it for them. No GIVE, no TAKE.
What does that say about your own willingness to improve?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
If you don’t want to do it, that’s perfectly fine.
If you do want it, you just need to find someone who will.
It won’t work out if you force yourself.
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It depends on the person.
I also don’t think it’s right to give the impression that “everyone does it.”
It’s a matter of personal preference, and it could also mean that she’s prepared for a transactional relationship.
Even if your relationship is based on receiving an allowance, I think there may be a possibility if things change a little.
Maybe she’s simply not a woman who wants to do that, or perhaps she feels hesitant about taking the initiative herself.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Oh, so that’s what people are saying now?
For me, no favors is the default. When someone says, “Next time, it’s my turn♡,” it feels too much like a business transaction. I’ve even met women through delivery services and dated them without ever receiving oral sex.
Things have been different lately, but I thought it was because I’d visited a shrine during the pandemic. So this is what the normal world was like after all…
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
There can’t really be girls like that…
Do you mean you’re continuing to see someone who won’t do those things??
If she won’t even kiss or give you a blowjob, maybe the problem is with the man…
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
If she doesn’t want to, there’s not much you can do. Trying to get someone who doesn’t want to do it to change her mind would be very difficult—she doesn’t like it, after all.
If oral is high on your list of priorities, I’d suggest continuing to make offers until you find someone who’s willing to do it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
The only girls I’ve met who wouldn’t give blowjobs were unmotivated women doing compensated dating on dating sites.
So I really don’t know.
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