To the men registered here: Do you feel like you’re living honestly? I don’t care whether you’re registered here or what you do, but you’re doing something society considers wrong—something that would hurt people who care about you if they found out—and carrying on as if it’s nothing. Doesn’t the guilt and sense of wrongdoing build up inside you and become exhausting?
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I’m sure you’re aware that your character is rotten and that you’re far inferior to other people in terms of humanity, but…
Eventually, all of this will come back to you in one way or another.
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
The person asking the question may actually be right.
> “It will all come back to you in one way or another in the future.”
Maybe if people knew that in advance, they wouldn’t do it in the first place.
Isn’t it similar to the “20 million yen retirement savings problem”?
People are told, “If you keep spending money on having fun now instead of saving, you won’t have enough for retirement!”
It’s true that if you don’t start saving now, you’ll almost certainly be short by 20 million yen in the future. But even if you do save 20 million yen, there’s no guarantee you’ll definitely have enough—and you might die the moment you finish saving it.
You could bet on dying young or society’s systems improving, and enjoy yourself every day without saving money… But when you actually reach old age, you might end up living in such financial hardship that it feels unbearable, tormented by regret.
Maybe humans make mistakes because they can’t know what the right answer is.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
My husband has done absolutely nothing wrong. He’s kind to both our children and me.
I’m the one at fault for no longer wanting to be intimate with him at night.
I always clasp my hands behind his back.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Here we go again: someone hiding behind anonymity, hurling abuse under the guise of their own self-righteous sense of justice, and then basking in their victory (lol). Just the kind of netizen that’s been trending lately.
Do you really think you’re an honest person when you spew venom at complete strangers who have nothing to do with you? What does “honest” even mean?
Since you’re so confident in saying it yourself, why don’t you set an example of honesty and stop doing anything wrong? You shouldn’t eat meat or fish, either—you’re taking lives, after all. I’m sure you realize that yourself, but all that evil builds up and makes you less human (lol). Taking lives and continuing to live only piles up more evil until it becomes too much to bear.
See? Just interacting with people as evil as us will corrupt your character, so you’d better get out of here quickly. And don’t ever come back to look again.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’ll do things right in this life, so I’ll probably be fine. But eventually, the bill will come due, and in my next life I’ll be a fly.
That’s why I want to do everything I can—good or bad—so I have no regrets or unfinished business in this life.
Compared with the intense 26 years Ozaki Yutaka lived, my life is basically one long series of “narrowly failing to die” every day.
Wouldn’t it be awful to end up as someone who never lived properly, surrounded by all the things they wanted to do and never did?
So soon, I’m going on a date with an adult film actress I like. I’m going to achieve my goal, so please cheer me on.
By the way, we didn’t meet through Universe. I attended an event as a fan, somehow managed to exchange contact information, and finally worked my way up to a date. Once the date is over and I know how it went, I’ll write about it in my column.
I describe every last detail of my sleazy efforts, so please give it a read. I think it might make you reconsider and think, “Even a sleazeball puts in this much effort?” Bad guys put a surprising amount of careful effort into things too.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Why are you so angry?
When I was angry in the past, my dad told me, “Try turning your stomach sideways.” I wondered, “My stomach sideways?”—and while I was thinking about it, he teased me and burst out laughing. It’s a fond memory.
If you call someone a bad person just for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), then what about terrorism?
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Women like this show up from time to time—are you the wife of one of the male members here?
There’s demand for mature women too, so you should come in for an interview! I think you’d enjoy giving it a try.
Marika
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