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Aug 29, 2021 09:53
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If I continue for a long time, will I have fewer chances of receiving offers?
7 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think the number of people doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) will decrease.
When I meet someone, I make an effort to maintain the relationship for as long as possible. During that time, I work on building a solid foundation for my life. Once that foundation is established, I graduate from papa-katsu.
That’s an absolute rule for me!!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
If a man wants to choose someone to make an offer to from among all the women, he’ll usually take his time looking through the profiles at first.
However, since they’re displayed in order of newest registration, he may decide to make an offer after looking through a certain number of them—especially if he finds someone who fits his type.
Then, even if he goes on a date and is reasonably satisfied, he may start searching again, thinking there might be someone even better.
Since the profiles are listed newest first, he’ll start by looking at newly registered women again.
If he finds someone he likes before reaching the point he had previously looked up to, he may make an offer to her then.
If this keeps happening, he may never get around to viewing women who have been registered for a long time.
That said, it varies from man to man. Some will look through everyone before deciding, while others will add lots of women to their favorites first and choose from there later. There seem to be various approaches.
Some men also don’t like the idea of meeting someone after other men have already dated her. They specifically make offers only to women who have just registered because they want to be her first date.
Getting back to the main point, there are women who have been registered with Universe for a long time, and some even receive offers almost every month. However, they’re a very small minority.
Even those women probably received many offers during the month they registered, but after that, offers likely became only occasional.
So while we’re happy when women continue their activities with us for a long time, separately from that, we hope they’ll find a man they can build a long-term relationship with. I think women who stay registered for a long time probably handle that aspect quite well.
Other
I’m Uehara, a staff member.
I think it’s only natural for supporters to be drawn to new women…
As for whether your chances of receiving offers will decrease, that’s difficult to say.
I can’t give you a definite answer, but I believe it depends on your appeal.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
Of course, you’ll probably get a chance to meet newcomers.
Since you’re looking for something long-term, you should be fine as long as you value the men who make you offers, even if opportunities are few.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That’s only natural.
The numbers will probably keep dwindling.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
When it comes to “going after newcomers,” I think there are two possible scenarios.
When a male member first joins, he’ll usually look through all the women’s profiles and make offers to the ones who catch his interest. Once he’s seen everyone, he’ll probably start looking only at newcomers.
That said, new male members are joining all the time, so they’ll also go through all the women’s profiles when they first register.
Another possibility is men who specifically prefer women who haven’t been with other men yet. Those men may target newcomers, but not every man thinks that way.
Personally, I actually prefer women with some experience rather than newcomers. Things tend to move more smoothly, and they usually have more to talk about.
So even if you’ve been registered for years, I think there’s still a chance of receiving offers from new male members. However, it’s normal for the number of offers to settle down compared with when you first joined.
Come to think of it, when I had just joined, I deliberately made offers to women who had been with the club for a long time so I could learn proper club etiquette from them.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I tend to go for newcomers.
What does “I’ll think about it after we’ve continued for a long time” mean?
There’s no doubt that the longer someone stays registered, the fewer opportunities they’ll have to receive offers.