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Aug 14, 2021 02:37
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Have you ever been hurt by papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
It feels like papa-katsu is something where only the women get hurt.
I often hear about a favorite girl suddenly disappearing, but that’s only to be expected.
After all, it’s a gathering of people who don’t value the other person.
Have you ever experienced pain or hardship you didn’t see coming?
4 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It’s not as though these clubs are full of people who don’t value others.
If you want to continue seeing a popular female member, you have to treat her well. Otherwise, you won’t last—you’ll be weeded out, too, as a papa (a male supporter).
It’s in your own best interest to treat both the female members and the club staff well, because they’ll value you in return.
It really hurts when a favorite suddenly says goodbye.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Mac, a male member.
I’m paying you so I don’t get hurt, so please don’t make unreasonable demands.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is something both men and women can enjoy when they’re able to bring a little luck into each other’s lives and appreciate the good things they receive in return.
As the name suggests, it’s best suited to people who feel more vibrant and alive through it.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Compatibility varies from person to person, regardless of gender.
If a papa hurts you, all you can do is cut ties and move on to the next one.
That said, there are women who are enjoying their experiences.
You described men as “a group of people who don’t value their partners,” but I wonder if that attitude is reflected in how you approach relationships, which may be why you haven’t met any good men.