I’ve been seeing a man for about six months. He’s always muttering things like, “The previous girl was only a 3 or 4,” or “5 is way too much,” while handing me my allowance.
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Since he says it in a joking way, I didn’t used to mind it that much, but hearing it every time is gradually starting to get annoying.
Aside from complaining about the allowance, he’s a fun papa (a male supporter) to talk to, and there’s nothing else that bothers me. Would you continue seeing him?
This is Kobayashi from Customer Success.
How about telling him, “Even if you’re joking, it hurts me when you talk about other women…”?
Alternatively, if you have another papa (male supporter), I think it may be better to end a relationship that’s causing you pain.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If I absolutely needed the money, I might put up with it, but personally, I’d end things…
If you genuinely like him as a person and don’t want to break up if possible, why not ask him not to say things like that, even as a joke? If he still doesn’t change, your only option is to block him immediately.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If it’s been six months, why not give him a firm talking-to at least once?
He may actually mean it as a compliment—that you’re wonderful and special to him.
If you’re going to continue seeing each other, I think it’s better for you to be able to say what you think and tell him what you want to say.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m a man myself, but if she’s going to complain, I think she should simply stop seeing him.
You could just say, “If you’re not satisfied with the arrangement, shall we stop meeting?”
And if she still keeps complaining, it’s probably best to part ways.
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