My allowance increased after re-registering in my late 20s. Why is that?
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I joined Universe at 24, left, and re-registered at 28.
Age-wise, I’m in my late 20s, and I’m older than the average age of women registered with Universe, so I was worried that many men would screen me out because of my age. But thankfully, I received a lot of offers.
Also, four years ago, the men who made offers gave me a minimum of ¥40,000, or at most ¥100,000 pay-per-meeting (once a month).
(I realize saying “at most” may sound ungrateful...)
But after re-registering, the men I’m still seeing have been giving me ¥50,000 from one low-paying papa (a male supporter), ¥100,000–¥150,000 pay-per-meeting from the others, and even ¥○○○,000 for a monthly arrangement—two to three times what I received four years ago.
I feel like I’m being given more than enough.
My registration location and rank are the same as they were four years ago. My rank is Black.
When I think about how I’ve changed over the past four years:
[Appearance]
I’ve lost weight.
My hair is longer.
Four years ago, my appeal was that I looked like a genuine amateur—plain, innocent, and not jaded.
Now, people often say I have a glamorous, professional look (so I think men who prefer a more amateur type tend to avoid me).
Apparently, the club’s introduction described me as having a TV announcer-like look (lol).
[Personality]
Embarrassingly, I don’t feel like I’ve changed all that much in the past four years...
Could it also be because dating clubs have become more mainstream than they were four years ago, and there are more men who are experienced at this kind of thing?
In the past, most men didn’t negotiate the allowance in advance.
Almost all of them simply decided on the amount themselves and handed it to me after we had an adult relationship (intimate), just before we parted ways.
Since the staff hadn’t explained things to me beforehand either, I was immature and didn’t understand the club’s rules or system—I just assumed that was normal.
If my personality hasn’t changed, I’m wondering whether the biggest factor is simply that my appearance has become more polished than it was back then. But from a man’s perspective, what do you think?
I’d appreciate your thoughts.
I’m Aya, a female member.
Maybe it’s because I’ve lost weight and developed the kind of allure that comes with being in my early thirties. My papa (a male supporter) also prefers slim women and says even an average build wouldn’t work for him. There are wealthy men like that, right...?
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Um… what’s the question?
Hmm, I see… wait, you’ve written an impressive answer too??
I think that’s probably it.
I feel like “They won’t negotiate the allowance in advance” would sound more natural.
I’m drawn to that amateurish, innocent, unjaded quality. Hmm? Am I being deceived? Being led around by the nose?
So I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who feels it would be far too presumptuous—and simply impossible—to approach the person asking the question.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I wonder what age range the women being introduced tend to be…
It seems like there are at least some financially comfortable men among the older age groups.
From a man’s perspective, do they prefer mature women? Maybe?
That said, in my case, as I’ve gotten older, my eyes keep drifting toward younger and younger women.
It’s a problem.
Meeting younger women really does make you think, “This is exactly what a dating club is all about,” haha.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one too.
C-could this possibly be thanks to the Q&A site?
Heh-heh!
(I was trying to sound a little pleased with myself.)
This wasn’t the case four years ago, after all.
I think the reason even low-paying papas are now offering ¥50,000 may be because Mr. Ma〇k and Mr. Ka〇 kept writing that they personally paid ¥50,000. Maybe people who had been paying ¥40,000 panicked and raised it to ¥50,000.
As for:
> Other men offer ¥100,000–¥150,000 pay-per-meeting, or even ○○万 per month—two or three times as much as four years ago.
I imagine it might be something like:
“If there are people paying ¥50,000, then I might as well offer as much as I can afford. It won’t hurt me, and it’s better to have a long-term relationship with a woman, right?”
If you can comfortably pay ¥100,000–¥150,000, it would be a terrible waste to lose replies from great women just because you tried to save money.
Once you realize that, if she’s your type and someone you’d like to stay with for a long time, it’s only natural to offer more.
Anyway, setting that little fantasy aside…
In reality, at Universe, women around 30 are the most popular. The men who prefer that age group also know very well how much allowance they should offer.
Previously, I think the issue was that men in that group didn’t make offers to women who were too young. This time, it seems she happened to appeal to exactly that group.
And while four years ago there were even women who had been blacklisted but became platinum members again after re-registering, I get the impression that she may be someone who has genuinely worked on herself.
Perhaps she’s also giving off more sex appeal than before.
Either way, I’m glad to hear she’s now able to receive more allowance than she used to.
That said, you never know where or when something might happen. Keep working hard, and don’t let your guard down.
Just remember this one thing:
Monsters live in heaven.
Heaven—in other words, when everything is going well and you’re on top of the world—that’s when the monsters come attacking.
Monsters live at the very top of the world, you see. That’s what they call “being led astray by temptation”!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s probably because now that I’m in my early 30s, men don’t look down on me as much.
But is that really what you wanted to ask?
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